Honestly, I did nothing. She was the one that decided to leave because she felt as though she didn't want to be tied down in a marriage (we were together since we were 16 and were together for 12 years- 5 of which we were married w/ no kids). She wanted to drink and party with some of her newly single friends. She blindsided me the day after Christmas back in 2007.
She just couldn't manage her money and when nobody could support her or her spending habits (including her own family) after the divorce, she turned to bank loans that made the problem worse. After her family bailed her out of the bank loan, her roommate (and childhood friend) starting to take advantage of her by asking her to help out more on other expenses in the residence. Her family refused to give her anymore money after helping to bail her out on the bank loan. So she had a bright idea to fill out these pre approved credit card offers that came in the mail in my name and max out both cards ($3000 on one card, $4000 on the other). I had no idea that I had these cards in my name and I was shocked and really hurt that she could've done that to me.