If you hated the first ASM, i don't think you will like this either. But these are definitely not as cheesy as the Raimi pics IMO. I love Raimi outside of Spiderman. I just thought his theatrical "removed from reality" style was wrong for the street based web slinger. The flat painted sets and lighting alone irked me in Raimi's pics. It was like a heightened reality broadway show.
This new ASM has real human emotion, and while it flounders on some silly stuff, the performances are top notch overall and keep you involved. There is real peril here. Sally Field is fantastic in this as are Stone and Garfield. The villains are a bit more Burton though. So there is this strange mix of tone.
Great fun though. The spider swinging through the city shots were some of the most impressive VFX scenes I've ever seen. I was genuinely thrilled by them, which is saying something considering that we have seen most of them already. And I loved the soundtrack, it's just as crazy as the movie.