I think part of the the issue is that female characters are bring written as being "good" and/or "strong" just because they're female, and not because, well, they're just good and strong. Captain Marvel I am looking at you (ahem).
No one blinks an eye at Ripley, she's not strong because she's female, but because she's just a strong character.
Edge of Tomorrow springs to mind as well. Emily Blunt's character kicks arse, not because she's a female, just because she kicks arse.
Claric Starling? Princess Leia? Katniss Everdeen? Furiosa?
There's plenty of movies with great, strong female characters/leads I love. Not because they're female, just because they're good characters. Hollywood needs to (re)learn to write good characters, above all else, and if they're good, it doesn't matter if they have dangly bits between their legs or not.