If the word of god tells you to hate and condem people for being different then yes I see a bigot. If the word of god tells you to love all people and grant them respect regardless of their beliefs then I'm all for it. Religous beliefs can breed hate. Just look at the middle east. My father was extremely "religous". He called himself a christian. He also called blacks the N word, called gays ___s, and would never stand for a woman preacher. I learned many lessons from him. The biggest one is I will never hate the way he did.
The Word of God does have Laws and Commandments given to us..which as believers,we ARE to try to Obey..(but we are almost seemingly incapable of doing).The Word of God Condemns the Sinner of his/her wrong doing...The Law of God condemns us,which is to understand that we NEED a Saviour,and that we are Lost without Christ...
Its not that God hates,its that God hates Sin! He gave us instruction of how to live...but man's heart is continually wicked and that Man came into this world totally Depraved and in Sin....
Don't rely on what Man does or says,Rely on what the Word of God teaches,and the only way to find that is to open up your Bible and seek God in Faith,and He will speak to you through his Word...