It's not namecalling, it's naming a toxic behavior, you must understand the things you think before you actually say it.
In fact, I'm even helping you out if you're not a misogynist, just don't use terms like Mary Sue so you don't get confused with one.
Luke and Rey training were similar, they were both helped by the Force to help maintain the balance(this was explained in the movies).
First, let me make it clear: you are talking to a woman. Do not be saying "misogynist" to me.
Second, you are not "helping me out." What you're doing, whether you realize it or not, is casting yourself in a pretty poor light.
Third, I will say "Mary Sue" any old time I like. Them's the rules.
We're done here, I think.