lol it must be true then, man is hiding his shame!!
Reporters continued to question him about the videos, asking Ryan if he could confirm that he and his wife had appeared in them, and Ryan continued to offer the same answer.
"I hope you can respect the fact that I really don't want to discuss it," Ryan said.
He was also asked if he could talk about how the videos got on the Internet site YouTube, where they originally become public.
"Again, this is a personal matter. I really do not want to discuss it," he said, declining to answer a question about whether he had discussed the issue with Jets management.
Finally, Ryan was asked if he thought it was "kind of cool" that he and his wife share this fetish.
"I understand I'm going to get asked this question frontways, sideways, backways and every other way," he said. "It is a personal matter."
Ryan then described his wife as "beautiful. We've been married 23 years, you know. She's awesome."