i appreciate all of the comments you guys...
without going through a lot of details, etc...what happened was a tragic accident and it was a huge eye opener for us all...things do change and nothing is ever the same...everyone says that time heals all wounds...it really doesn't....there's always gonna be a hole in our hearts and she will always be with us and a part of us no matter what..when it happened, we had the whole town there for us..the schools, church, friends, etc...everyone was there to offer help, etc...so that was a really nice thing in that time of need...
anyways...thanks again and i really do appreciate all of the kind words and thoughts/prayers...