I'm sorry is he supposed to go to the high atmosphere, space, and then an alien planet in spandex? He's given the option of taking the suit in Homecoming and becoming a big-shot Avenger fighting in a team of superheroes only to reject it in favor of staying independent and protecting the little guy. That's profoundly Spider-Man to me.
The next time we see him with the suit, it was being attached to him as he faints from oxygen deprivation while sticking to a spaceship leaving Earth. At some point you have to acknowledge that his having access to technology is not an indication of his character but rather a requirement of the plot. Tobey and Andrew would likely use the same technology when placed in similar circumstances as, y'know, they're the same person as NWH so clearly shows. The same goes for MCU Spidey using his FFH suit. For all their technological advancement, we don't see MCU Peter doing much that he couldn't do without the suits. The A.I. is completely scrapped as a concept and is never used after Homecoming. The most his FFH suit is used for is to glide and to stun a couple dozen murder machines that he later fights with nothing save his skills. Even the stun happens as a result of a plan he came up with attached to a suit that he designed. Technology is a tool that this Peter has access to by virtue of the world he's a part of.
You're missing the forest for the trees with your perspective of Homecoming's ending by focussing on the Iron Spider suit when the whole final act that happened prior to that scene is based around how Peter is still Spider-Man without a stark suit and can still save the day without Stark's help. He's in his own pj's when he's lifting that debris off his back. He's a scared kid in a lot of pain and - without a Stark suit or anything else - he harnesses his determination and willpower to push through. That's as Spider-Man as it gets.
Even in NWH the suit and its technology only come into play during the Doc Ock fight. Admittedly it did save him there, but Peter was also in a situation that even Tobey never got in against him where Otto's tearing through a bridge full of people and using cars full of bystanders as projectiles.
Tobey and Andrew's iterations of the character lived in worlds without big-time superheroes living in the same city they did. This Spider-Man is shaped by growing up in a world with Iron Man, Captain America, and Thor on the news. It's entirely understandable and perfectly in line with what we know about Spider-Man that he be amazed and inspired by that. It makes sense and shows how the events of the Avengers and other Marvel films shape the people that live within that world. Even in the comics, one of the first things Spider-Man did was try and join the Fantastic Four. Civil War established an almost familial bond between Tony and Peter and it's only right that that aspect of the story echoes throughout this trilogy which is inherently dedicated to Peter's upbringing as a superhero. It doesn't define this Spider-Man's story, it's just a part of it.
On a side note, Peter lived in a penthouse apartment with Harry when he was going to ESU, so if you're gonna complain about Spider-Man having rich friends I'd suggest you pick up a comic.
Lol seems like your not understanding what im
Saying it you aren’t reading properly . I don’t care what the consequences were. Spider-Man doesn’t rely on the iron suit. Period. He doesn’t need it. He barely uses his actual spider powers to fight in situations. Andrew abs Tobey wouldn’t need that tech cause get this! They relied on there own smarts instead of someone else’s .
Please stop bringing up that this Spider-Man grew up in a world of heroes. Almost every iteration of the character has and they never relied on stark tech or fought villains connected to stark .
telling me to pick up a comic but if you read comics you’d know Peter turned down the avengers and fought them cause he didn’t need help and saw them as corny.
so what if he lived in a penthouse? Ok? Tobey lived in a nice house with Harry to. Still went through pain and loss and could barely scrape by. Not to mention Osborn broke that bridge. It wasn’t like it was long term.
you keep bringing up the homecoming ending . The dude still uses the suit in every fight. He still relied on it. No way home is probably the first movie where he throws a damn punch .
i understand for space but for every other fight he was in? Nah.
See you keep saying he’s Spider-Man without the suit but turn around and say he needed the suit in these situations. No he didn’t . Spider-Man is a quick thinker. In the doc ock fight he didn’t need a suit to beat him. Tobey didn’t ? He was on a damn train . Much more perilous then a highway .
peter has access to suits before but they never lasted. If he was given a grand opportunity it would collasI think you miss the point of the character. He isn’t supposed to fit in he’s supposed to be his own person . The mcu isn’t an excuse for him to rely on anyone. He hasn’t before he wouldn’t now.
he ask for help against villains but he doesn’t make it a thing. He tries to handle things on his own . If it’s to much for him he will ask for help like with venom . Again no way home is probably the first time he throws a punch and fights like Spider-Man instead of using a billion dollar suit that has nanotechnology and literal armor .
the fact that he built the far from home suit ina billion dollar jet while happy was looking at him like he was a young tony stark should be enough proof to you that he was a protege to iron man rather than his own hero