Peter Steele from the band Type O Negative.
I saw them live back in 96-99 a few times, he died recently and i am back listening to their stuff again. I met him as well, back when he was in good shape and no drama in his life, was a nice guy..tall man, had to be 7ft.
Actually, a day after his death a buddy of mine was over at my bestfriends place and Peter's cousin was with him, i met her once but, forgot she was related to him until she mentioned it after i was talking about his death..they even look a bit a like..scary.
When i met him, he looked like this..
But, before he died..he looked something like this..train wreck ending i think, he was only 48 and died of heart failure..must have been drugs.