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Was just catching up on the conversation a few pages back, despite it greatly deviating from the thread topic.
I should change my user name to Off-Topic.
[...] There has always been entertainment but there has never been a time like today where "pop culture" is this massive money making behemoth that people get engulfed by. When I was a teenager I definitely got obsessed with a lot of pop culture properties in a way that would be too much now. As a teenager I think it's alright; it's just part of growing up.
Agreed. It's not in the marketing department's best interest for people to outgrow things anymore. I've remarked a couple of times now that geeks are getting transformed into shoppers.
I myself only re-engaged with the collecting side of things between late 2011 and 2012, and I've had a lot of fun re-visiting things and discovering what's out there, but I guess it comes as no surprise that I've recently been losing interest.
I was always an outlier on this forum in that I'm a minimalist in every other aspect of my life, so I was always looking for a curated, minimal collection and playing with that concept -- and seeing my collection expand and contract periodically while trying to achieve that -- was the actual entertainment, rather than owning the-thing-in-itself, which is static, whereas the acts of seeking, curating and collecting are dynamic.
This latter distinction is what keeps a lot of people collecting, IMO. It's the act, not the things.
I am still extremely adamant that the greatest stories are the ones that have a definitive ending. All good things must come to an end. I enjoy Marvel, DC, Star Wars, whatever but my absolute favorites are still the things that have ended (whether it be LOTR, or TDK trilogy, POTC trilogy, or even the original SW trilogy - they all have proper endings). Just taking Marvel and Star Wars for example now, I'll still watch/read to be entertained but when there is no end in sight, I not only become less invested in new content but it also just never really seems to satisfy. It's missing a lot of heart.
Absolutely. I've lost interest in Star Wars for a lot of reasons, but the biggest reason for me is that it actually ended in 1983 as I myself was slowly leaving childhood -- it's just a fond childhood memory that Disney keeps trying to hack my brain and my wallet with.
There are opportunities for very entertaining content but it's still sugar-y junk food at the end of the day, it's not nourishing and I find I'm not feeling compelled to own a piece of it.
As far as collecting specifically, I've said this before on the forum but while I find it enjoyable, the longer I collect and partake in the collecting community the more everything just kind of blurs together and I find myself not caring quite as much or not being satisfied.
When geeks get turned into shoppers.
[...]But as I was saying I am slowly feeling less invested in collecting as a whole because just like with stories, all good things should have an end. I want a definitive end to my collection and I am trying to once and for all settle on what that looks like.
I've had a great time with this hobby the last decade. But I'm allowing myself to admit I've outgrown it. Let me clarify: I don't mean that I'm somehow 'more mature' or 'better' than people who are still enjoying it. I mean I've literally just grown in different directions and want to spend my time differently at this point, and since my relationship to objects has ultimately been one of detachment because they're only things -- I feel I'm able to let collecting go.
A big part of me just wants to go all out and get a couple Prime 1 statues, essentially having my collecting culminate in a big, beautiful, expensive piece or two. Everything else would be sold save for 1 or 2 smaller things. Though to be fair my collection is also drastically smaller than it used to be (I can count all the pieces I have on my fingers lol). [...]
A collected object -- say a 1/6th figure -- is a reference point to something that I find meaningful due to the confluence of entertainment, genre, time and place, aesthetics, and personal history.
This object is connected to all other parts of that Venn diagram for geekiness. My enjoyment of the representation of Spider-Man is connected to every single other geek interest I've ever had.
(Sure, you can argue that I don't listen to just one band or genre of music, so I'm going to have different kinds of music represented -- but musical enjoyment is an active thing, not a passive representation. That makes a big difference.)
So to take that further, in theory I could pare down my collection to just one sixth scale figure as a nod to things I love without filling my shelves with a collection of any kind. It's a symbol.
In practice I just might. The idea is very appealing to me, but I don't expect everyone else to do live that way.
I've been feeling that for a while now, which is why I sat down and made a couple of lists. What IPs I still care about, what I have some fond memories of, all that. I broke them down by medium, filtered them to leave only the most "important" ones and so on. Now I know what Omnibuses I want to buy, what figures, everything. I have a clear vision of just exactly what I need and I'm sticking to it. There's a chance I'll deviate once or twice and buy some new thing, but I'm done chasing the new fads or trying to be an uber-completionist.
I will always enjoy certain types of entertainment, although I may engage with it less due to repetition or a dearth of high quality. But I don't feel much desire to own most of it these days. Entertainment for me is more potent as an experience than as an object.
[...]In my age now I don?t get the same fulfillment as I did opening a new figure cause months later a new version gets announced of that same toy. But I still enjoy the hobby sometimes cause I love the characters and it does look nice on the shelf
You're still enjoying the whole process and you have it in perspective. Makes sense. I do think -- further to darthkostis' point -- that some people get their identity conflated with these things we experience and the process of collecting, and inertia takes over. I don't think inertia is a good reason to do anything.