You know Mikey... It's interesting to see the similiarities between the two of us. My parents too used Star Wars as a healing tool for me in my youth...
I was about 9 years old and our town is built around a sinkhole, that we so lovingly called "The Pits". It was really dangerous and at the time, totally accessable to anyone who wanted to brave it's alligator infested water or high edged cliffs. My stepbrother used to jump his bicycle into the water from the high cliffs and swim back to the one area of the circle that was graded enough to walk back up.
I was always scared of the place, and thought it was haunted or something. We actually had a kid die there before I was born.... He was fishing and fell in, tangling his leg on the bottom and drowning. So needless to say, I never went into the water.
My step-brother liked to torment me, especially with my beloved toys. So one day when I refused to jump in with him, he snatched my vintage Darth Vader (with his goofy little push up saber) and tossed him into the pits. Now luckily, it landed on a dry area and not in the water... but the only way to get to that dry area was to walk around to the backside of the pit and climb down the wall.
I loved that damn Vader and was determined to go and rescue him from becoming Gator food.... So I walked around and climbed my little chunky butt down that wall. Now thankfully, the wall was only about 15 feet high and not 100% vertical, so not too much of an insane thing for a kid to do.... so I started scaling.
I got about 5 feet down before I lost my grip and fell down the rocky walls and hit the ground. I was all cut up and scraped, crying... and regretting my bravery for climbing down there. Sobbing and bleeding, I grabbed Vader and started climbing back up. When I got home, my Mom saw the caked dirt and blood all over me and had me shower... nursed my wounds.
And when I got out she told me to sit on the couch... I thought I was going to get scolded, but instead she pressed play on the VCR and I saw those familiar Yellow letters coming down the screen as ROTJ began. Slowly the tears went away and my wounds didn't hurt as much. Mom made me Grilled Cheese sandwiches and gave me one of those little "Juice barrels". She didn't yell at me, but later she asked me to explain to her what happened....
It was one of the greatest memories of my Mother that I ever had... I remember when I went to her funeral I put a picture of me and some Star Wars cards in her casket.... She got me into the saga and always used it to cheer me up. I wanted to put Vader in there, but lost him before she died....
Star Wars will always have a place in my heart, and mainly because of my Mother. She was a closet geek, and never made me feel bad for being one. I'll never forget that for as long as I live..
Anyway.... That's the story... Kids, stay away from Pits...