Where to start?
I first read 1984 in about that year, at school, so the lecture on Orwell isn't required, thanks! I've even visited Jura where he wrote it.
You fail to see the dangers of your own system - the eradication of rights before your very eyes - and focus on the ills of the world, which is inherently dangerous. The "don't look at us, look over there!" antics of your government, as you dismantle Roe v Wade, from under the very eyes of your citizens, is exactly how democracy is undermined. The focus on other country's issues, how they treat women, and wagging a finger at them, as your own country erodes its own women's rights, is terrifying to see.
I'll also add in that Margaret Atwood didn't just look to Iran for inspiration - for the source of Gilead she looked much closer to (your) home. The KKK, the white supremacist movements in the US, the battle of the Bible Belt, the power and influence of the far right in the US - all the events in the world that led to the eradication of rights, the rise of the right, the terrifying exercise of power under a flag, all led to her great "What if?" that is the Handmaid's Tale. I'll pop in a link when I find the Penguin article I read on her influences.
And the River Orwell is nowhere near London, but you're technically correct that it is outside London.
Dude seriously, book a trip to Iran, or China, or Russia, or North Korea, or the middle east, or nearly anywhere in Africa - and wear a gay rights shirt, or give some lip to any authority figure, or wear your star of david, or have your wife proudly "choose" to not to wear a headscarf (mine did indeed wear one.) And watch your rights get wiped off with toilet paper. That's a reality that billions on your planet live with.
And the KKK?

It was ancient history even 40 years ago when Atwood wrote Handmaids - Iran on the other hand, is indeed the ACTUAL world of Handmaids Tale, down to the smallest detail...
in 2025. Nearly 100 million people living like that - TODAY - just doesn't matter to you, lost in the BBC bubble of microaggression, -isms, -phobias, neo-whatevers. Legally defined as thoughtcrime and doublethink.
Handing back abortion rights to states is a far greater danger to humanity than women dragged into vans to be never seen again... simply for not covering themselves properly. Different to us but equal, bro. No position to judge, bro.
And yes, the river Orwell is indeed outside London - as I said (not "near" as you said, though an hour's train ride away is not exactly Scotland) - but it clearly flows directly into the Thames and into Westminster, Scotland yard and the BBC. Hence your world view that downplays or ignores the sheer horror of how the global majority must live - under the guise of "we don't go there."
Go back to Jura and this time post an edgy meme... and see how long it takes for the thought police to arrive. And have your 16 year old kid quote a rap lyric on social media and she can sit in jail with you. Yes, utterly terrifying. Even though the dull 1984 movie version did bioarrely reframe it all as a warning aganist fascism, not socialism (as it actually is,) don't say Eric Blair didn't warn you about all of this in high school, Mr. Goldstein.