Navigating humans is complex. Obviously one errs on the side of caution.You guys ever have a girl tell you no and mean yes? You guys ever have a girl tell you, well this is not a date... and it ended up being one? Ever have a girl say she doesn't like you, then throw herself at you at the end of the night? Lot of mixed singles from girls out in the wild.
But 'No' never becomes 'Yes'
LOL ... I imagine those initial 'no's were actually 'maybe' according to my erstwhile female companion's rulebook, but in my own youth I was far too oblivious to parse anything other than a woman sticking her tongue down my throat. Luckily, we were all of us up to no good back then so I didn't have to wait too long.Oh man, I would love to tell you 2 dozen stories from my youth over a martini sometime.
I'm old and find there isn't much mystery there anymore. I guess I'm mostly glad about it.I'm so glad I'm old and no longer care about the mysteries of women.
LOL ... I imagine those initial 'no's were actually 'maybe' according to my erstwhile female companion's rulebook
Along with the obvious this would be entertaining just to see her attempt a British accent lol...just make Sydney Sweeney 007. and make her be the womanizer, have her be the one seducing the "Bond girls"
why not? why the heck NOT. anyone give me a good reason why that wouldn't work......
Give it up - no matter how many martinis you ply @ZE_501 with, his answer to your advances will always be NO.Oh man, I would love to tell you 2 dozen stories from my youth over a martini sometime.
Youth is wasted on the young. I remember wasting a lot of it.
I suppose that's the point. I've always said the women decide, doesn't much matter what you think you're doing.Well, if they say no but mean maybe... how are you supposed to know?
My strategy back then was take care of myself, be approachable and try not to be a dick. They decided, just like in your example above.All I know is it got to yes. That night.
And believe me, I'm not a real aggressive type. Hell, I collect dolls.
Being apart of the youth somewhat still myself,
I think we were posting simultaneously. Yes.If a girl wants to kiss you, she'll do that, all you do is stand there.
Youth is wasted on the young. I remember wasting a lot of it.
Well, if they say no but mean maybe... how are you supposed to know?
All I know is it got to yes. That night.
And believe me, I'm not a real aggressive type. Hell, I collect dolls.
( no but it means maybe ) kinda sounds like a mind game, I don't really like that. indecisive, doubtful? is she not sure? what's the deal?
No. Never.You guys ever have a girl tell you no and mean yes? You guys ever have a girl tell you, well this is not a date... and it ended up being one? Ever have a girl say she doesn't like you, then throw herself at you at the end of the night? Lot of mixed singles from girls out in the wild.
That all sounds like work. I think I'll just keep getting nice haircuts, smell nice and call it a day.If a girl doesn't make it obvious she likes you then you treat her like she isn't present and go for someone else. If she is actually interested you'll know after that move, nothing gets a girl talking and exposing how she feels than seeing you with another one instead. Keep an eye on her while with the other one, see if she's at all moved and go from there. That is the game. Nothing more noticeable than a woman's jealousy. Me personally, I crave a girl's desire for me, indifference to me is an immediate turn off and I won't give her the time of day.