All women are similar to a degree, they want something they deem worth the chase. They want to play the game, straightforward is boring. To them, most guys are boring and not worth their time or thoughts past a single night. It's not about hooking up with them, that's the easy part, it's about being the guy they remember hooking up with, regardless if you see a future with them or not. You have to be able to get into their head if you expect to have a lasting impression, good or bad. I don't know about you, but I'd prefer to be remembered, whether that's as toxic or charming doesn't matter, a girl wants a balance of both. Make her take a hit to her ego is a surefire way to never be forgotten. Attractive women are used to guys at their feet, doing whatever, whenever. You don't want to be that, they want a guy they're worried isn't spending his time thinking about them. Women spend a lot of time in their head, give them something to think about.