Darth Cruel
Super Freak
Should have chosen to take the Apexplorers, instead.
So I was talking with this woman online. We met Thursday and hit it off like really well, makeout well. We messaged each other a bunch! We went to a baseball game on Saturday. She was talking about things she wanted to do with me during the summer like traveling and camping. We were supposed to go to dinner on Wednesday.
Today she messages me and says she's not ready. Says she needs someone adventurous and daring, whatever that means.
Man I feel bummed.
Do people still give a crap if folks meet online? I know two married (and still love each other) couples who met online. I met my fiance online. There really isn't any stigma attached to it anymore. And most importantly - you're SOBER. I've met so many women in bars, thought they would go somewhere, and then within a day realize I had some serious alcohol goggles on or we just didn't click without a buzz. Nah, online is the way to go unless you have a crazy large social network.
I agree with the poster who said she probably wasn't over someone else. Better now than later - I went out with a girl once for almost 4 months, and then all of a sudden she stopped wanting to do romantic stuff anymore - not just sex, but holding hands, kissing, hugging, normal relationship stuff. I called her out on it and she said she realized she wasn't over her ex yet, wasn't ready for that serious that fast, and needed to back up. Yeah...I bailed on that quickly. At least this was only after a few days.
Good luck, man. I thought I wouldn't find anyone for a long time. There's someone for everyone, it just takes time. Don't give up!
be more adventurous? You know what screw her. You're probably better off. Now you can find someone that better fits your personality.
Up until a year ago I was working full time, going to school and practicing martial arts so I didn't have time to be adventurous.
She asked me if I ever went cliff diving and I was like, "No, I'm afraid of heights."
I don't think adventurous was the real reason. We almost went all the way the first night and she hadn't been in a relationship for a while. I think it got too intense for her too quickly. That, however, was not all my doing though.
Yup, I'm betting she's still struggling over someone else. It happens.
why u deserve?
She's married.
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