Ironman1188
SO BE IT
In all fairness to Chris the main reason to charge significantly more than face-value postage for international shipments is the time it takes to physically go to a U.S. post office to mail anything other than a letter internationally.
I try to offer everything I sell on eBay to buyers worldwide, but I charge a similar $3+ handling fee for most items. Having been the non-American wanting American goods, I know how irritating it is to see sellers who only ship domestic. At the same time a person's time, in this case extra time, is worth something.
In all fairness, after his poor communication and business skills, his eating the extra cost would've been the least he could do.