I find TOS enjoyable because it's sincere. It's got a charm, a throwback from another era. There's chemistry between the cast, the writing's (mostly) sharp, it all comes together.I never really sparked to classic Shatner Trek (despite having an obsessed roommate in college and therefore seeing a lot of snippets and part episodes) or anything later Trek (possibly because I worked on ST TNG for a short while during college) but Netflix got the whole series and I watched the first couple of eps and was surprised to quite like it. I even watched the pilot that didn't have Shatner.
I watched the first 10 minutes of the Pilot. It was so blunt, so smug, so self-righteous that I just couldn't take it. If you pull the "aliens are advanced and super-peaceful and look down on humanity for having had wars" card, I'll instantly write you off. It's not intelligent commentary, it's a short-sighted and biased view of reality. I know, I know, Q is supposed to be a hypocrite. The takeaway from the scene remains the same. A commentary on humanity's "barabrous and senseless nature". It's why I can't take Trek in general seriously. It takes concepts and philosophies, twists them, makes them fit their POV and then smugly tells you how right it is. I never got into it, and I never will. I'll not pour all that time on it to see if I'm, at all, mistaken either. I just don't care.TNG is far better than TOS, but I still like TOS a lot. The sci-fi themes are above and beyond almost any other show....time travel, artificial intelligence...TNG takes TOS and improves on it with even better writing. But I understand you watched 10 minutes of a bad episode likely, so that is going to shade your opinion .
He's not missing much, really. I like the Iron Man Trilogy well enough, and TWS. IW was nice too. Maybe GotG. But they're not necessary viewing. If the guy doesn't want to pour 50 hours or so into them, there's not much I can find fault with. And TIH is most certainly not the worst MCU flick. Captain Fungus was much worse. At the end of the day, Marvel makes flicks. They're not worth watching on any merit. They're designed for a night out before you hit the bar or for 12-15 YOs to have somewhere to go. He's not missing anything and I can understand his POV.I have a friend who has only saw the first half the Incredible Hulk movie with Edward Norton, and has never watched another MCU movie. I was like just watch Iron Man, but he won't do it, thinks all marvel makes crap movies. Man loves movies, but he makes me crazy having watched arguably the worst MCU movie and therefor skipping the rest.