Hello all:
First, but this incident has turned me off to buying accessories for a while and in a way has ruined part of the hobby for me (i haven't been on in a while), you really can't trust anyone anymore and that is so upsetting... this is a hobby we are supposed to enjoy, yet I am being harassed and belittled by an eBay member whom I am sure belongs to these boards as well
Second, the real reason I am here today, I wanted to share with you this incident:
I purchased a pair of boots from an eBay member named
OLDJOEINFIRMARY-OJ (who also has an actual webstore)... Today I opened my gmail account and received harassing emails and wanted to report him here and see what you all think.
A month ago (march 17th) I ordered a pair of boots for just over $5 via eBay. A week after the boots were scheduled to arrive I still did not have them (the seller did ship them out on time/next business day). I emailed OJ when I noticed that the boots stated "in transit delay." Now I completely understand "in transit delays," yet I NEVER received the boots... so I simply asked for a refund.
When I opened the case asking for a refund the buyer called stated rudely:
"So you must have confused with Domino s Pizza? We never committed to a specific delivery date or it s free. The estimated delivery from eBay is simply an estimate not a contract." (yet it is a contract... why else would they WAIT for the item not to arrive before you can open a case)?!
Yet when I told him thats what eBay policies are there for this is the reply: "
Sniveling, unreasonable, infantile buyers like you make eBay a lot less desirable place for sellers. So stomp your feet, throw your tantrum, and wait for the eBay process to run it s course. The threat of your impending negative feedback amounts to absolutely zero! In short, you are an immature and unreasonable person. " (word for word).
On april 3rd the seller stated that the item was in fact lost by USPS and he agreed to ship out another item.
Once again this item NEVER arrived. What are the odds of USPS loosing TWO packages from the same person to the same?
On april 11th the seller messaged me through eBay case and stated:
"I just checked the tracking on our second package and see that again your package has failed to be delivered on time. I honestly have never seen anything like this happen before. There clearly is something going on with your particular destination. Either the address you have provided to eBay is incorrect, or your postal delivery people are intercepting your deliveries, or your delivery person is purposely not scanning the parcels so they appear to be lost. Whatever the case, we will not be making a 3rd attempt to deliver these boots. Sorry, we really did give it our best effort...."
Once again OJ is BACK to blaming me... WHY?! I have purchased off eBay and high ticket items from this site MANY times and not once has this ever happened... He blames my postmaster and me for having incorrect information... When the fact is BOTH items never even made it to my post office... they never even left the sorting facility.
Did I receive me packages? NO. Did the buyer issue me a refund? NO. I had to call eBay and ask for a refund WEEKS after I was able to (I gave him plenty of time).
I had NO intentions of leaving negative feedback because I wanted to wait for the boots to arrive. THEY NEVER did... so the other day I DID leave this comment: "Item had to be shipped TWICE, neither arrived. Had to get money back via case" which was entirely true.
The buyer then replied with this: "
The USPS took full responsibility for this & we granted you the refund MORON" which is not true at all considering the photo files uploaded CLEARLY show
"eBay Customer Support has refunded you through PayPal." OJ did not, as he says he did.
And calling a customer a moron in an HONEST negative feedback comment after I waited A MONTH for my item... SMOOTH dude
Now... today I open my email to received a harassing email (see photos): he still thinks I WAS IN THE WRONG?!
Calling someone a moron and calling a post office (when in fact the post office he called wasn't even my ACTUAL post office) is so childish. The woman who operates the post office is in fact a friend of mine and I deal with here on a DAILY basis, she knows me very well! This buyer REALLY upset me and ultimately hurt my feelings (silly i know) and ruined something that was going to be amazing for me. I was planning on using this pair of boots on a Terminator custom... I have waited over a month to finish this custom because I wanted these boots and now have to start searching for boots all over again.
After I reported him to eBay for harassment eBay informed me he had ANOTHER report against him for the same issue (so obviously this has happened before).
Literally while I was on the phone with eBay I revcieve ANOTHER email:
"Hooked on Phonics can help when you are having difficulty with your words. You should really try it. At least run the spell check.
Now, go look in the mirror and see who brought all this grief into your life. All you had to do was act like an adult rather than an impatient little child. Blaming the seller who shipped your package quickly and addressed correctly when it goes lost or delayed is UNREASONABLE! Blaming the seller when they send you a second package to you that also goes lost or is delayed is again UNREASONABLE!"
WHO does this guy think he is?
This is a hobby we are ALL supposed to ENJOY! Not belittle people with?! I don't believe waiting a month for a pair of boots (after they were shipped twice and never left the sorting facility) is UNREASONABLE? What really gets me is he is harassing me for a FIVE DOLLAR item? and ironically is now saying
"the boots would have been delivered today but I requested them to come back to AZ and they are not halfway back" REALLY?! REALLY DUDE?! I thought they were lost (as stated in your eBay messages)?!
I am going through with the promise I sent back in my email (and while I am not proud of calling him an "a**h***") and reporting him to this site as well as the BBB for his online store. When someone tells you to STOP multiple times, that means STOP, that does not mean reply back and harass again.
Attached are photos of both our ebay case and the google mail I received/replied to today.
I am sure he is a member here at sideshow and I do NOT want him harassing me through here. I am worried he will report ME/my eBay ID to the boards for being "unreasonable" when our entire conversation is listed in attachments below.
If you took the time to read this, I thank you. I just wish people could be honest and not think everyone is out the get them.