Well, it works for me. Sorry.
I also really connect with the whole "everything happens for a reason" theory, which permeates the entire film, even the title itself. And I also do believe that there are two types of people: those who believe in "signs", the "divine", what-have-you... and the skeptics who don't. And that's what the movie is all about... it just happens to be wrapped within a spookily intimate alien invasion conceit. And since I've also been into the whole aliens/UFO subject matter, I really dig this film.
yup, none of those things generally speak to me. I do enjoy stories about broken people if not becoming whole at least mending and moving on but this one was just too contrived and didn't ring true for me.