I must say, I agree wholeheartedly with what is said here at 16:31;
The idiots who dislike this solely for the reason that it shows a strong woman and a woman's frustrations and anger (done in an effective and succinct way that compliments the story and character, I might add) are the exact people that she's referring to when she explains how she's had years of experiencing in controlling her anger;
"Well, here's the thing, Bruce, I'm great at controlling my anger, I do it all the time. When I'm catcalled in the street, when incompetent men explain my own area of expertise to me. I do it pretty much every day, because if I don't, I'll get called 'emotional' or 'difficult', or might just literally get murdered. So I'm an expert at controlling my anger because I do it infinitely more than you!"
The episode doesn't make this the whole point of the story or the character. It came at a time when Bruce was repeatedly telling Jen the importance of controlling her emotions now that she is a Hulk. It makes sense that this would be discussed here, and it doesn't really come up again or dominate the episode thematically.
The episode succeeds where some other projects with strong females leads have failed - and that is by effectively showing the strengths of the character via their own merit and not simply by tearing down other characters in the process. She-Hulk is clearly powerful, but Bruce's Hulk is still shown to be powerful too (he's probably the most "Hulk" he's been in years - although things could only improve after Infinity War and Endgame).
Now as a straight white male, I appreciate that (for some people) I have no right to even talk about this... but I try to in an understanding way.
No, it doesn’t show her as a strong female character. It doesn’t have any backstory into who Jennifer is one minute prior to the opening of the show. One man tells her to smile while she is giving her closing argument (and he is right, juries trust attorneys who smile and show confidence, this is a fact) and that’s the only time we really see a man “explain her area of expertise” to her. Which again would have worked better if he wasn’t actually correct.
Prior to her talking about how well she controls her rage we see her lose her cool and threaten and inferred to be about to physically attack some jerks at the bar before Bruce stops her, so we know she’s lying, but Bruce doesn’t call her out for this. It is never addressed. Hopefully it will be later, but since we have no background on her as a person, it needed to be addressed here. Also, the guys were jerky, but not implied to be dangerous. This scene would have worked better if they were who she encountered first before the women in the bathroom made her look like a prostitute standing out in front of a bar. Also, I’m not suggesting it’s ok to rape a women for her clothes, but if you actually look like a prostitute in front a bar, it seems like getting some male attention is likely. They didn’t threaten her or attack her, so the scene was just very badly written, but it’s all we have to ***** her character so that’s what I’m doing.
Further, again, we know nothing about Jennifer’s backstory in this show, but we know Bruce was physically and emotionally abused by his father as a child, and all he has suffered through as the Hulk, so her speech about knowing better than him what it’s like to be angry is very much off putting to the audience who knows nothing about her, but who has shared Bruce’s suffering. Maybe she does have reason to be better at emotional control, but show, don’t tell. By the end of the episode we don’t know anymore about her than before the show and for a character who is defined by emotions like a Hulk, He or She, that’s bad setup going forward.
Again, hopefully this does get addressed, but as a writer you want people to emotionally invest in your character from the start, and this show failed spectacularly at that. From the reviews of the people who were allowed to watch the first 4 episodes it doesn’t sound like that will be fixed too soon, but I haven’t seen them so I can’t say beyond that.