Poor guy. I feel for his family and his girlfriend/wife. Those are the ones who are suffering now. I always focus on the living because they have to deal with the loss. I feel bad for Jacob as well, but he's suffering no more. It's his family and friends who have to deal with the loss of a loved one. I hope they can pull through these difficult times and focus on all the great moments they had with him. I liked the guy as well. I never knew he was confined to a wheel chair though. I always saw him and his beautiful partner and focused on how good looking of a couple they were not realizing he was paralyzed. Sounds like he truly was a fighter.