Yep, well put jye. Especially if the udpated version of the character is tweaked in other ways like MCU MJ not being Mary Jane Watson anyway. That's why I don't have a problem with Sam Wilson Cap since he's still Sam Wilson and not Steve Rogers. Hell now that we got a perfect Steve Rogers already I wouldn't even care if the rebooted him now and made him black. They did it right the first time so they can have a ball doing whatever from here on out.
And I honestly don't think that when Bryan Hitch drew Nick Fury to look like SLJ in The Ultimates that he was trying to tokenize the character. He literally just gave him the likeness of the most badass actor he could think of at the time and it happened to stick. No harm no foul. Same with MCD Kingpin. Sure I like D'Onofrio's Fisk more but there's room for both.
Still that guy's rant was funny as well especially went he went off about how he was supposed to be grateful that they made Monica Rambeau a little girl who idolizes Brie Larson, lol.