I'm just not that big a fan of live-action Spiderman. The dilemma of trying to balance school, dating and still being your friendly neighborhood SpiderMan isn't dramatic to me. His premise is youthful and childish. I enjoy the movies in the way I might enjoy Ferris Bueller or Rush Hour. But they have little weight to me. No genuine feel of threat. Stacey is quickly replaceable with MJ. The villains turn good half the time. Peter being late for dinner does not put me on the edge of my seat. I prefer Bond, Indy, Batman, McClane, Mad Max, Aragorn, Neo, Jack Sparrow, Iron Man, even Star Lord and young Luke Skywalker.
He does have a great lesson though: with great power comes great responsibility.