Rape AND attempted rape AND implied rape all mean the same thing at the end of the day.
The same subject matter, sure. But all one and the same on a visceral level? Certainly not. In fact, I personally cannot stomach watching an actual rape scene in a film. They bother me greatly on a personal level. That or any scene with a woman or child being explicitly abused just shakes me to my core and I simply can't watch it. In fact, I've skipped past that scene in 300 every single time I've watched it since the initial viewing. Same with rape scenes in other films. I walked out of the theater during the rape scene in THE HILLS HAVE EYES and will never watch another frame of that movie. Talk about tasteless.
So, yeah... I for one can tell the difference between the serious, disturbing subject matter or "implied rape" and actually presenting the horrific act itself. I can tell because I can handle the former in a film, but not the latter.