The board is a separate entity from Sideshow, we are just very, very fortunate that SS has 'adopted' us as somewhat of their unofficial forum and actively participate in discussions here.
While I sincerely understand your frustration and need to vent, like has been mentioned before CS issues should be handled directly with CS and not aired out on the board. I know issues are not always resolved to the customers liking, and unfortunately this seems to be the case here.
You are upset over what you feel are strongarm tactics from SS. Some could argue that by posting the problem here in this public forum you are also using strongarm tactics hoping for a change in resolution by drawing more attention to the problem. Now don't get me wrong I'm not saying that is your motive because I don't and cannot know that, but it can be viewed that way.
Also try to look at SS's perspective as well. They have to fight a constant battle against folks not only trying identity theft but also individuals trying to bypass the purchase limits placed on their products. They have to inforce the policies as 'blanket' descisions. I mean they are unable to know your exact situation and motives so they have to treat everyone the same. Unfortunately innocent people get caught in the middle sometimes. Just keep in mind that even though the story you gave CS may be accurate and sincere, SS has probably heard that same story 10 other times by individuals just trying to pull one over.
I'm definitely not trying to be judgmental here, but this is exactly why CS issue should stay off the board and be handled with CS directly.