dude what is with this "criticize nicely" crap…if you don't like say it…I've only heard this in the statue community..if you don't like the iPhone, do you say it nicely or do you just say it…I get people made it yada yada, and I buy ARH all day…but gimme a break man this is the world we live in, criticism, bad grammar and thoughtless interactions are here to stay. Taking it personally or even reading too much into it is on you if you're dumb enough to let it get to u.
It's called Constructive criticism. You give your opinion(s) on any particular collectible in a positive manner and by doing this you show respect to your fellow board members.
If you are unfamiliar with the board rules then I suggest you read through them.