I may be misunderstanding you but this, to me, reads like ''BvS rushed it's universe-building and crammed everything into one film with no build-up'' and because of that it should be...excused from comparison to Civil War? That feels like moving the goal-posts to me so no one comes down hard on BvS.
The year has had 2 superhero movies that pit good guys against good guys - the comparison is inevitable, preferences are inevitable. Marvel and DC both chose their respective paths to this kind of scenario. IMO one of those paths is quite simply the better one and from what I'm hearing has resulted in a far more satisfying film.
Yup.... You can't help but compare... I even liked BvS more then I thought I would... After watching CW I could not help but compare and actually started to hate on BvS for being such a missed opportunity. WB and DC are pushing forward to fast... I have said from the beginning this film would have felt more epic with another Superman film and a new Batman film under it's belt. There are other issues and I just feel that Marvel has a better understanding if their characters and property then Snyder does (DC just seems to stay out of it) But.....
I'm dying to see the extended, i'm super stoked for the bluray.
Like Jye said... I am looking forward to the blu ray and I am hoping it helps with my enjoyment of the film more.