galactiboy
OT Preferist
It hasn't been locked yet... but I can feel it coming
re: "rights", define what a "right" is and what a "privledge" is, and then we can go from there.
this is a social issue, not a political issue, so hopefully no lock is needed.
and my comment about liberals was not a political comment, its about social liberals. "Utopians" is not yet a political party.
I am a group of question marks?
I have been called worse.
Clearly the Bill of Rights states our rights as Americans. But the issue is not about that, to me it is about whether there is an unevenness in the way we treat a certain section of society. When I talk about rights, I simply mean everything you and I are free and able to do, every American citizen should be free and able to do.
In getting down to the marriage issue, I personally think that we should give gay couples the same rights as other couples, call it whatever you want, and move on.
I think the unwillingness to seperate a "right" from a "privledge" weakens the Bill of Rights. You do that and its a slippery slope IMO into what you allow people to claim as their "right".
Just because some people have a privledge doesn't make it everyone's right, especially when that privledge was designed and created to represent a standard in which by definition those now demanding it don't even believe in. It weakens the meaning of the privledge.
I'm only speaking in terms of "marriage". I'm not arguing against coupling or living together. Hell, I'm not even really against a new word being invented to convey the meaning. However, IMO, "marriage" is a term coined by and for 1 man + 1 woman relationships. (To be clear, I don't consider 1 man + 3 woman to be "marriages" either, neither does the US government.) To use "marriage" to mean otherwise bastardizes the word for everyone.
No matter what his reasoning for not standing up to pledge. He is doing something HE feels is right for him. Whether he's defending gays, or any other thing in this world, doesn't matter. What matters is he goes for what he wants, and stands up for what he believes. For that, I support the kid.
Which is why I said give them the same rights as heterosexual couples and call it whatever you want. As long as the rights are the same (eg: hospital visitation, etc.) then everything else is an afterthought.
I'm only speaking in terms of "marriage". I'm not arguing against coupling or living together. Hell, I'm not even really against a new word being invented to convey the meaning. However, IMO, "marriage" is a term coined by and for 1 man + 1 woman relationships. (To be clear, I don't consider 1 man + 3 woman to be "marriages" either, neither does the US government.) To use "marriage" to mean otherwise bastardizes the word for everyone.
Because same-sex couples are denied the right to marry, same-sex couples and their families are denied access to the more than 1,138 federal rights, protections and responsibilities automatically granted to married heterosexual couples.
I agree and I say if some other kid feels its his right to pray outloud before eating his lunch he should be allowed as well.
Public schools are government institutions that should not punish someone for using their 1st Amendment right.
Marriage is already bastarized... your argument almost assumes that all married couples enter into marriage full of understanding and appreciation I don't think our divorce rates would support that. And on the other hand to create a separate category for same-sex couples (to me) would suggest that they are not as viable or important creating a nice second-class citizen situation.
As a political or social issue, in America to be married involves gaining number of very important rights that same-sex couples are denied; able to make medical decisions, custody of children, inheritence, etc., etc. I think for many that is a central issue...
From the Human Rights Campaign: