Just a few general comments before I respond to some posts specifically, and my apologies in advance for the long post.
Like a few members here, I am in e-mail contact with Howes. And although he has not given me a specific timeframe for the projects I have him working on, or hasn't as of yet offered any new progress pics of other projects, I do get the impression that he is working on stuff as often as he can.
Maybe I am being naive with all of this (I can accept that), but at the end of the day, worst case scenario I'd rather be proven wrong while erring on the side of being empathetic than be proven wrong while thinking the absolute worst of someone, seemingly getting my kicks from seeing someone's reputation being harmed. Just as many of you think Howes has ruined his credibility beyond repair, IMO once you call someone out as a scammer, you can't really go back on that either, so if Howes does eventually make good on his responsibilities, how will that make you look?
I would hate to lose out on the money (and especially my orders which will be gifts which I hope will be very meaningful) but I don't see what good comes out of thinking so negatively.
And I realize they were largely intended to be jokes, but to be absolutely clear on the matter: my only relationship with Howes is that of a
customer, period. One who signed up for the House custom head, and sent him two Ada heads to paint up as well. Nothing more, nothing less. We're not friends, and have no previous ties otherwise.
Lastly, if I have offended anyone, it really wasn't my intent, and I apologize if so. I'm not at all interested in picking fights on these forums, and as a relative newcomer I really have nothing personal (be it positive OR negative) with anyone here.
Hope to participate in more FUN threads in the future!
You haven't done any thing to deserve their comments.
Thanks SP, that's nice of you.
With respect, I thought costumeball's goal here was to try and make us all feel guilty for being upset over being taken for a ride. At least thats how I understood his attitude when saying stuff in effect of: "maybe you shouldn't have gave him money if you couldn't stand to lose it". And "he never set a date so he can keep your money as long as he wants" and "he never told you he wouldn't sell your items out from under you on ebay, so its completely alright".
I think you're twisting my words a little. I've already said I don't think selling on eBay was a good move. Only that given how little he was charging for these commissions, it makes sense that he would want to spread out the cost of sculpting/casting/etc as much as possible. Providing a possible explanation isn't an endorsement.
I don't think we'll ever get an answer as to why some eBay buyers are getting their heads before the commission customers that will be "satisfactory" for the angry mob here, and aside from wanting to bring in extra income the only other thing I can think of is maybe he has so much stuff piled up that he doesn't have things organized well enough to know who's first in line.
Who knows? Regardless, I do think an apology on that matter isn't uncalled for. But I still stand by the notion that there are clearly some people who had unrealistic expectations going in that has colored their view of the situation.
Yeah, I didn't get the impression that costumeball was "offering to serve as a liaison." He was basically just saying "Chris is in contact with me, so I don't see what you guys are getting so upset about."
Never said that some people didn't have the right to be upset. What I take issue with is authorities/lawsuit threats, harassment, name-calling, and gleeful piling-on from people who have nothing to do with any of the Howes commissions. Can't I express the opinion that people are taking things too far?
But it is looking like I might indeed be doing some "liason" type stuff, and not for any personal gain on my part, but purely out of an interest in resolving these matters as peacefully as possible, hopefully without any more threats, false accusations, or melodrama.
Once again, I have orders from Howes that are personally very important to me, so I wish nothing more for all of this to have a happy ending. Those who don't have anything to do with this except for being rubbernecking car wreck gawkers, I can't say their motives are as well-intentioned. I understand that people have a lot of friends here, and it sucks to see your friends being taken advantage of, but I just don't believe that's what's happening here.
Whoever is a "liason" please make that recommendation. Slow but steady refunds is something.
I have inquired about refunds, and in fact he didn't put me on his "ignore" list for it. I hope to have something to "report" soon. But that said, I am glad to see that some people (X-Files thread for example) are willing to wait it out a little more and wait for the heads to come around. I mean, isn't that the point of these commissions in the first place? Not to get refunds, but to get cool unique additions to our collections, right?
As I said, I truly believe it's just a matter of a little more patience at this point, and in no way do I have any inkling that Howes is trying to rip anyone off.
And again, sorry for the loooooong post.
P.S. Thought I'd add this. To anyone who hasn't been able to contact Chris via e-mail, if you have any GENERAL concerns you'd like me to raise, feel free to PM me about it. Please refrain from highly specific stuff (ie. "Did my order for ____ ship?") since no offense but I don't want to involve myself so personally/specifically, but I'll do what I can where it can help!