DarkArtist's End of the Line Thread

[nash]

congrats Josh!

 

[automaton]

happy to hear your great news! congrats!

 

[DarkArtist81]

Bad luck has reared it's evil ugly mug back our way. This weekend my Wife miscarried. We spent the entire weekend in a perpetual state of grief as we tried to be 100% certain of it. So the good news has been snatched away, just like so much else in my life.

Prog should be happy though, as I can continue being miserable and instead of being an unemployed irresponsible Dad I can just be an unemployed irresponsible artist.

I don't know when I will be on next, for now I am just numb and destroyed. Please keep my Wife in your thoughts, she needs as much support as possible.

 

[ProgMatinee]

it doesn;t make me happy at all. I truly am sorry.

 

[Reinhardt]

OMG Josh... I am so sorry to hear this tragic news. When will the bad luck end???? The only consolation I can say is that it's better that this happened early rather than later in the pregnancy.

So so sorry. Both you and Theresa are in my thoughts.

 

[MaulFan]

Dude that's just horrible, no loving, wanting to be parents should ever have to go through that. Just take care of each other for now and deal with this, then press on and keep at it.

 

[praxitas]

Sorry to hear bro. Time will heal. This tends to happen somewhat often during first pregnancies not that it will comfort you much, but you are far from being alone. Its harder on the women so make sure you take care of her.

All the best!

 

[DarkArtist81]

Thanks for the support guys, God knows we need it. I'm glad it at least happened early and not later, but it still hurts like nothing else I have ever experienced.

 

[uscmhicks]

Very sorry to hear that Josh. Thoughts are with you and your wife.

 

[Dark Passenger]

So sorry man. That sucks. Don't hesitate to try again. Kids will bring joy to your life.

 

[Mesa]

My sister miscarried twice while trying to have her second kid, and a good friend of mine miscaried while trying to have their first. So while it may not be much of a consolation, it happens way more often then you think.

 

[PapitoMX]

Our support is here for your Wife and you. Believe me, I can sympathize with extactly what you are going through right now. It's like a hard painful feeling in your stomach and then some. But like a couple have said here already, be with your wife and support her through this since it will be hitting her harder and we will support you through this as much as we can here.

 

[karamazov80]

I'm sorry to hear of your loss Josh. My thoughts are with you and your wife.

 

[TurdFerguson]

That's horrible, I'm so sorry. I really can't imagine what you're going through but my mom miscarried a few years ago and she also lost a one year old baby before I was born so I really don't know what you're going through but I have seen the pain it causes. I'm truly sorry.

 

[barryo]

aw that really is a shame josh. sorry to hear of this. be strong & know you have the support of the freaks here.

 

[Kabukiman]

I am so, so sorry to hear this. Sending all positive thought to the Church family.

Stay strong, both of you.

 

[BadMoon]

Bad luck has reared it's evil ugly mug back our way. This weekend my Wife miscarried. We spent the entire weekend in a perpetual state of grief as we tried to be 100% certain of it. So the good news has been snatched away, just like so much else in my life.

Prog should be happy though, as I can continue being miserable and instead of being an unemployed irresponsible Dad I can just be an unemployed irresponsible artist.

I don't know when I will be on next, for now I am just numb and destroyed. Please keep my Wife in your thoughts, she needs as much support as possible.

My thoughts are with you both. This WILL work out! Keep trying!

 

[wofford29]

My sincerest prayers and thoughts go out to your wife and yourself.

 

[devilof76]

I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you two. That's not fair.

If it's of any consolation (and I think it puts things in the best perspective possible) my mother miscarried the pregnancy before me, and if she hadn't, I would never have been born. Something to think about. You guys were ready to welcome this one. Catch your breath and think about it.

But whatever you do, don't let this drag her down with it. Nothing else matters. It destroyed my mom when it happened to her, but she went on to have four great kids. My dad is who kept her looking forward.

 

[john@yoyodyne]

Josh, I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. When something like that happens, you've got to believe that for reasons unknown to us, it just wasn't meant to be.

My wife and I had a miscarriage with our first, but wound up with two beautiful healthy boys on our second and third tries. Sometimes, I think about who that first child could have been, but our boys keep us too busy to think much about anything other than the here and now.

Best wishes to you and your wife. Take some time to heal and someday, when you are both ready, try again.