eighthsamurai
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really really sorry josh. i know it's really hard now, but look to the future bro. it happens a lot more often than people think. you're gonna be great parents, and real soon i'll bet.
DarkArtist's End of the Line Thread
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Jediguy
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Sorry to hear of your loss. God has a plan for all of us. Just have to trust in him
csi
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Your family is my thoughts and Prayers Josh.
HAPPYBOY
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Oh my Josh, I am so very truly sorry to hear the news. I know it must be heart wrenching for you both. You are indeed in my thoughts and prayers friend. Know that we are here, that we care, and that if you need anything it is only a quick message away. Love you man!
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Thats terrible news Josh. I hope the best for you and your wife.
DarkArtist81
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Thanks a lot everyone. I'm definitely playing the strong one at this point, mainly just supporting her and staying positive for her (she's the negative one).
It is pretty common, and something I tried to prepare for mentally. I just really didn't want it to happen to her. She is just so superstitious and thinks that everything bad always happens to her, I really wanted this to go smooth... if anything just to break the cycle for her.
My parents also miscarried right before they had me, so I take it as a blessing in disguise. I know I will keep trying, even harder now that I have tasted that feeling. I appreciate everything guys, thanks for being so supportive.
It is pretty common, and something I tried to prepare for mentally. I just really didn't want it to happen to her. She is just so superstitious and thinks that everything bad always happens to her, I really wanted this to go smooth... if anything just to break the cycle for her.
My parents also miscarried right before they had me, so I take it as a blessing in disguise. I know I will keep trying, even harder now that I have tasted that feeling. I appreciate everything guys, thanks for being so supportive.
galactiboy
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Man, am I ever sorry to hear this. Its always a fear that a misscarriage will happen... you just cross your fingers and hope against it.
You and your wife are definitely in my thoughts
You and your wife are definitely in my thoughts
eczamurai
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My girls has had 2 miscarriages, 3 actually, since she was carrying twins the second time, it's an aweful thing to go through as a woman, and it really tests your ability to be a good husband, my well wishes to your wife Josh..
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Thanks a lot everyone. I'm definitely playing the strong one at this point, mainly just supporting her and staying positive for her (she's the negative one).
It is pretty common, and something I tried to prepare for mentally. I just really didn't want it to happen to her. She is just so superstitious and thinks that everything bad always happens to her, I really wanted this to go smooth... if anything just to break the cycle for her.
My parents also miscarried right before they had me, so I take it as a blessing in disguise. I know I will keep trying, even harder now that I have tasted that feeling. I appreciate everything guys, thanks for being so supportive.
Josh, I was heartbroken to read this news after being so pumped for you last week bro. This is tough for sure. Just happened to a good friend of mine a few months back and he had to be the strong one too...it was super tough on his wife, but they got through it and they're trying again.
Sounds like you have the right attitude too man. My Mom miscarried twice between my older brother and me, and if that hadn't happened, I wouldn't be here...so indeed, there are blessings in disguise.
Stay up and stay positive bro, we're with you all the way.
Josh,
I am truly sad to hear this. But please take these words and hope they offer you (and especially your wife) some solace and peace-of-mind:
My ex-wife (who's still a very good friend) had 2 miscarriages when we were having children, and 1 DNC (that's a bad one... basically the child dies in the womb and essentially has to be delivered stillborn
). However, aside from those heartbreaks we did manage to have three amazing children, who are to this day as healthy and beautiful as possible. Just amazing little people.
It can and will happen, bro. You both need to know this.
^ This!
I am truly sad to hear this. But please take these words and hope they offer you (and especially your wife) some solace and peace-of-mind:
My ex-wife (who's still a very good friend) had 2 miscarriages when we were having children, and 1 DNC (that's a bad one... basically the child dies in the womb and essentially has to be delivered stillborn
). However, aside from those heartbreaks we did manage to have three amazing children, who are to this day as healthy and beautiful as possible. Just amazing little people.It can and will happen, bro. You both need to know this.
You'll have your kid..just keep on ____ing
^ This!
Voorhees27
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Hey Josh,
I'm so sorry to hear about the bad news, I haven't stopped in here in a while. Keep your head up buddy, my wife and I are going on just over 4 years trying.
I know you'll make an amazing dad.
I wish only the best for you and your wife.
Roy.
I'm so sorry to hear about the bad news, I haven't stopped in here in a while. Keep your head up buddy, my wife and I are going on just over 4 years trying.
I know you'll make an amazing dad.
I wish only the best for you and your wife.
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Hey bro
Sorry to hear man...wish you guys the best!
Sorry to hear man...wish you guys the best!
UTtoyfan
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Josh, I just saw your post on Facebook and am so sorry for your loss. You and Therese are in my thoughts and prayers. Like the other guys say, we are here for you man.
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thenammagazine
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You guys are in our prayers. Chin up, stay strong and keep on trying.
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Oh my! 
Josh, I just stopped by on a whim; man I am so sorry. My sister-in-law had 2 miscarriages (including a DNC) and I know how hard it can be, there really aren't words to help in these situations; but my thoughts are with you and your wife.
Josh, I just stopped by on a whim; man I am so sorry. My sister-in-law had 2 miscarriages (including a DNC) and I know how hard it can be, there really aren't words to help in these situations; but my thoughts are with you and your wife.
Aw man, really sorry to hear that bud. My wife miscarried our second pregnancy (about two years ago now) and it really crushed us for a while. Our screen saver is a slideshow of hundreds of pics we've taken over the years and I even had to go through and filter out all the ones showing her pregnant with our now 3 year old daughter. It was just too difficult for her to be reminded of being pregnant in any way.
Fast forward to last summer and we find out she's pregnant again. We now have a perfectly healthy 2 month old son.
Grieve my friend, you, your wife, and the little life you lost deserve it, but your time as a parent will come and there's nothing like it in the world. Shoot me a PM or call my cell if you ever need to talk. Take care.
Fast forward to last summer and we find out she's pregnant again. We now have a perfectly healthy 2 month old son.
Grieve my friend, you, your wife, and the little life you lost deserve it, but your time as a parent will come and there's nothing like it in the world. Shoot me a PM or call my cell if you ever need to talk. Take care.
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Josh. these are dark times indeed. But ALWAYS REMEMBER that you have each other and that is a great blessing. Don't allow this tragedy to overshadow the love you have for one another.
You've gotten through a world of pain, you'll come out of this too.
james.
You've gotten through a world of pain, you'll come out of this too.
james.
BottleRocket
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Josh, my heart goes out to both you and your wife. My wife and I went through 3 of them. I know exactly how you feel at this moment. They hurt like nothing I have ever felt before.
The only advice I can offer is to make sure both you and your wife mourn your loss. It does not matter how far along she was, it was a life and that life was your child. Be strong for your wife, she needs that right now more than ever. Do not be so strong though that you do not allow yourself to mourn. It is only then that the healing can begin.
If it helps any, after 3 of them we now have 3 beautiful children and all the pain and suffering we went through along the way was worth every bit of it. Our doctor told us that sometimes women's bodies have difficulty adapting to pregnancy but once they do they have few probems.
We will have you and your wife in our prayers.
The only advice I can offer is to make sure both you and your wife mourn your loss. It does not matter how far along she was, it was a life and that life was your child. Be strong for your wife, she needs that right now more than ever. Do not be so strong though that you do not allow yourself to mourn. It is only then that the healing can begin.
If it helps any, after 3 of them we now have 3 beautiful children and all the pain and suffering we went through along the way was worth every bit of it. Our doctor told us that sometimes women's bodies have difficulty adapting to pregnancy but once they do they have few probems.
We will have you and your wife in our prayers.
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