I don't think you're wrong on any of the above.
I guess the reason the Filoni stuff doesn't bug me as much as some of you is that my brain kind of defaults to seeing it all as second or third tier canon which makes it easier to focus on the good (cool visuals! and they didn't break continuity!) while glossing over the bad (wait, lightspeed whales? time travel? Force "gods??")
I can even compartmentalize the problematic stuff to such a degree that when I see the Ghost, Chopper, or Ahsoka show up in live-action I immediately accept those elements as 100% canon in the context of the live-action footage but then immediately take their backstory as a mere approximation of what we saw in animation. Like maybe the animation is the "folklore" version of those characters' pasts with a great deal of embellishment and even some outright fabrications.
Like the person telling the story deciding that the dream Anakin had about Mortis wasn't interesting enough on it's own so presented it as if it was a real place. And the campfire story of how Ezra got captured by Thrawn got spun into him summoning space whales to capture Thrawn instead. Ahsoka fighting Vader could have been made up, another dream, or what have you. That's my handwaving approach to not needing to throw out all the animated stuff entirely.
I mean just the way that the characters move and fight in the cartoons (Jedi jumping a hundred yards at a time, etc.) kind of advertises quite distinctively that the events we're seeing aren't to be taken entirely at face value.