Honeslty, the biggest problem today is the kids. When I was a kid I had an Atari 2600 which was the best at the time. I played it on rainy days......all the rest of the time I was out running around with friends playing football, baseball, basketball, building forts in the woods, fishing and whatever other outdoor activity you want to name. My parents used to have to come find me to get me to come home for dinner.
Now, these kids do nothing, but sit in the house and play video games. it's almost a lifestyle for them and they take it like it's real life and death.
I admit I play to win and I hate to lose at anything. I have been trying to work on my temper with it recently and sometimes I do well and others not so well, but 1 min after I turn the system off I am over it. These kids today just live and die with this stuff because to many of them it's the extent of their social lives. They need to get out of the house a lot more.
Mate, you've made a lot sense in each of your posts and I couldn't agree more... some folk take video games way too seriously. Now I'm a real streetfighter fiend: I stay up at night, I watch tons of videos of the best players, I spend time at SRK, I analyze [sometimes with pen and paper] any lost matches and sometimes even the ones I won, and I play tournaments... I even spar with a player that's a lot better than me, and some players I'm better than, because like someone pointed out here, how can a player improve if he never plays with a better player?
All that said, I wouldn't for a second presume to insult anyone online. Whether they are a team-mate "slowing" down the rest of the team, or they an opponent that beat me in SFIV and then sent me a nasty message to rub it in... I do get upset, but I simply focus on the next game and try to improve.
Also, I don't think it's fair that anyone should exclude the "amateur" players from online gaming. Tell you what, if everyone that played online was a pro, it'll be a lot less fun than we all think
And about the kids, again you are totally correct... and this tragedy serves as a reminder of that:
https://haloblips.dailyradar.com/article/xbox_360_so_called_halo_killer_gets_23_to_life/
Finally, regarding the british v american gamers that thrash-talk... it's surprising how we still find ways to group each other as human beings at every turn... just because most of the gamers you know that thrash-talk are british, or american, doesn't mean everyone else is not just as guilty.
Personally the english gamers have always talked more thrash to me... but I only assumed that was because I lived in London and played more people from the UK. I've got just as much hate mail from US gamers so unless we've got stats that say otherwise, I dont think any one group talks more or less thrash than the other. For the record the Spanish gamers do seem awfully polite
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EDIT: The answer to the initial question is Yes [I do get annoyed at online players]. Which is why I have a wired USB controller as I cant afford to keep flinging my wireless ones onto my projected wall image