I still don't understand how the buyer is possibly saving when a seller employs one tactic vs. another, so I tend to agree that this doesn't matter and has nothing to do with the issue here. It isn't like the seller is trying to do the buyer a favor here, or are giving buyers better deals somehow. They are trying to save money for themselves. Though Nash seems to be arguing otherwise, sellers are the only ones potentially benefiting from this behavior, while buyers could be deceived, and eBay rules are being broken.
If someone had a ridiculously high shipping cost and I bid anyway, I'm gonna pay it. And I'm actually going to give this person general, positive feedback so long as the item arrives in the condition it is supposed to in a timely manner (I've probably only left negative feedback 3 times in 11+ years of eBay use, and that was when someone didn't send an item at all or refused to make right when clearly lying about the state of an item in an auction). So in that sense, I am agreeing to the terms. However, I don't have to agree that these terms are appropriate if someone is trying to avoid paying eBay fees, and I don't feel compelled to rubber stamp positive feedback on the shipping charge indicator.
For those who disagree with me, can you explain the purpose of this?
Why would eBay have this at all, if the general consensus was that buyers should never bid on an auction whose shipping costs were too high? Sellers, bidders, and eBay should know when someone attempts to deceive eBay and buyers. EBay's policy is what it is, and their feedback mechanism allows for people to give feedback specifically on this indicator after a transaction was completed. And I'm no fan of many of eBay's policies by any stretch, but just as some of you are saying "don't bid if you don't like the fact that the seller is trying to deceive," I think it is more defensible to say "don't sell on eBay if you disagree with their selling policies." My actions fall completely within the realm of acceptable behavior according to eBay's policies--I am giving them business, and providing feedback to ensure that sellers act as they are supposed to.
How any of this makes someone a "douche" is beyond me. But like I said before, trolls with no ability to discuss things logically in a civil tone resort to the lowest form of internet behavior. I wish this kind of thing was unusual.