Devil_666
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Hope for what!? Sorry.. but I seriously will never understand the rationale behind staying with someone who cheats on you.
Getting over my wife cheating on me..
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Hope for what!? Sorry.. but I seriously will never understand the rationale behind staying with someone who cheats on you.
Devil_666
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Nah.. not even then, for me. And again.. can't understand how someone, even if their spouse admits their error and is truly sorry, could forgive them for cheating. That act alone dissolves the whole ideal of marriage IMO. At that point, there is no marriage anymore.
DinoLast
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I think you and your Wife need to seek some professional advice. You will then discover if the Marriage is salvageable, or how to break up amicably for the sake of your child.
I haven't had time to post because the wife is around and I don't wnat her to kmow what I'm doing. I'll post tomorrow night when shes at work with more details.
Something Sexy
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How would she react if she found out about this thread?
No more details on a ____ing toy message board. Have some dignity, she ____ed another MAN. Now be A MAN and get your ____ together and MOVE ON!
I told her about it but I don't want her to know Im still posting.
Someone please delete the htread then if its gonna be like that!
King Darkness
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The whole cheating & mentally unstable wife thing aside, you got some serious relationship problems man. Everything you post makes one wonder what could possibly keep you involved
Glutton for punishment?
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Take a poop on her bed.
jonny88
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sometimes cheating can help a rocky relationship. sound very stupid but l have seen this 3 times.
a couple have problems for a long time and dont acknowledge it. then one of them cheats. then the other finds out and they say "damn. what are we becoming we need to fix this". they stop pretending everything is fine and are forced to work everything out.
just like when you get into a fight with a family member and you get all your feelings out, it actually makes things better. this has happened to me many times, of course different example but sort of the same thing on a smaller not so bad scale.
my dads secretary years ago was having problems for a while then she cheated on her husband with one of my dads workers and her husband found out and said yes we really do have a problem and it made them stronger and they are good last time a heard about them. they also had a baby right before that mess.
l think there are two kinds of cheating.
1. were the couple are having problems for a long time and one cheats on the other because they have less feelings for each other.
2. were there relationship is great and one cheats on the other spontaneously for know reason other then to get laid. thats the kind of cheating that is completely unexceptable.
but in the end they both are wrong. so its hard to say 100% to pack your stuff. it a judgment call. but for me, l would move on, especially in your case. even if she didnt cheat it sounds like she has major issues.
and everyone dont think this is rare.
l am sure there is many freaks here whos other has cheated on them. im even sure there are many guys here who have cheated on there other. sad but true.
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tnaig001
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To me if she's slept with the other guy, its over.
If I slept with someone else, I'd consider the relationship over too.
I actually liked what Meathook wrote about needing to think about our children when we decide what we allow to happen to us.
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Aaaaand, with a man, 'cos I'm "FAGLORE."
You forgot the E, it gives the insult more meaning.
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