Thanks Mr. Meathook! I really needed to hear that. And thanks to every freak here for your support. I'm going to stay with my wife here for a little while until I can figure out what I'm going to do. Most likely I will end up leaving her. I'm going to try and take my son too. I don't think it would be a good idea if he stayed with her. She is weak and couldn't handle him on her own, that is unless she hooked up with another man ASAP, which I think she would because she can't do it on her own.
But yeah, I was just with her this morning and I just don't feel it anymore. I know I could do better than her, and I will. But not now, later, when I'm in a stable place in my life, financially and mentally. It's gonna be hard but I'm better off on my own..
Happy for you that you feel ready to move on but be carefull.
Not saying all women are devious money grabbing two timers but have heard some horror stories.
I would cover your back when it comes to telling her what your going to do with regards to taking your son.
I would get some legal advice on your rights and hers on that matter first before telling her you are splitting.
Also don't leave your checkbook lying around as my freind did.
His wife who was having an affair, drained his account, by writing cheques from the back of the cheque book so he would'nt notice.
She left him in a whole lot of debt and he ended up losing the plot and seriously hurting the wifes lover and ended up in prison for gbh.
Not saying your wife would do that but don't know her except from what you've said and people can be f'd up when things go bad.
Maybe I'm being paranoid but thought it worth mentioning as she has proved not to be trustworthy and materialistic.
I hope you can split amicably and move on, like you said when the dust settles.
I have been cheated on, by an ex and know how it feels, and it does get easier once you have cut all ties and made it final.
I met someone new 6 months later and we have recently had our first baby.
Not sure if we are a marrage made in heaven as all relationships are hard work but she is a diamond.
Anyway sure thats not what you want to hear but just trying to say things change no matter how bleak it may be at the moment.
All the best to you and your son
