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I remember that user account. Not sure how much interaction I had with you back in the day...
Asta does seem like a more cool and collected person.
Forums can be a double edged sword, depending whether they're on an upward or downward trend. Things felt so bad at one time it dragged me down.
Churchill characterised his depression as a 'black dog'. Since a young age I've always thought of it as a 'black pit'. Sometimes it takes a lot of effort to step away and drive dark thoughts away.
A forum can act as an easy invitation to the abyss.
I deleted almost six and a half thousand Kuat of Kuat posts, which was quite therapeutic. Think I was only away for a few weeks, and as a collector there's the urge to be engaged in the wider aspects of the hobby.
So I created Asta, whose cheeky face was intended to constantly remind me to be considerate. To give people the benefit of the doubt, to replace argument with considered debate, and above all to be honest. Honesty is sometimes a tricky one, because writing how you really feel about certain things is liable to create friction. Sometimes it's better to just to not write anything, though that isn't always easy!
(The signature I opted for is Asta hiding in plain sight, because that's what I was doing when I returned!)