By the way guys, please don't feel bad about contacting me about setting specific items aside for you for when I start moving stuff out. I'd rather it go out to fellow freaks if anyone at all...
Dan
yeah, replied to your PM, dan.
your story is both very saddening and frightening. i've always feared the possibility of a marriage ending in divorce. i'm not married, but it's such an emotionally destructive experience, as i've witnessed friends and relatives going thru the intense pain and suffering. so my heart goes out to u and your daughter, my friend.
and like master wayne, just thought i'd add my own recent experience here, just as a way of providing empathy.
i recently confirmed a suspicion i've had for a while now. my ex girlfriend, who is also my colleague, is now sleeping with my BOSS. it's only been a few months since we broke up, and she's already f@&king around. and with a person i work for and deal with every single day.
now i'm actually not mad at my boss. to be honest, he's been a pretty good leader, and i've learnt a lot from him. i do feel repulsed by the idea of him being with her, but i can man up to the fact that as far as he's concerned, he is simply the next guy to come along. but she on the other hand KNEW exactly what she was doing. she knew it would hurt me. words cannot describe my feelings towards my ex right now. well, there are certain words, but i'd rather not use them here. that would render me as classless as she is. the funniest part is, up til recently, she was still saying how much she loved me and would find it so hard to move on. (i ended the relationship btw).
very sorry to hijack your thread, man. i'm not looking for any sympathy. just felt like sharing.