I'm in a similar situation. I'm in Guangzhou, and wave 3 are nowhere to be found. Got the first 2 waves from taobao, and saw them at retail here too. Luckily one of my American friends is grabbing wave 3 for me while she's home for summer, unfortunately she has no room for the Lawgiver too. I'm not paying the $120 they are asking for it on taobao. Really frustrating since they were all manufactured over here. It stings a bit paying paying $90 for wave 3 including delivery, when wave 1 and 2 cost me less than $100 combined.
Well at least you have a friend back in US to grab it for you. I have the extra shipping ontop from the forwarder as well, plus god knows if I get a good batch. Your friend could at least pick one off the shelf and take a look at the quality and choose a good one for you.
Wave 1 and 2 werent special at all so these could be found locally, but its the thought of sdcc or toys r us exclusives that is annoying again and again. Luckily our local retailer did order the lawgiver, or that would be a nightmare going through the same forwarding route.
It sucks in general, but nothing you and I can do. We are insignificant numbers.