l use to be like that just take deep breaths,and stay come.tho l have know patience and will snap on people who start something with me or get in my face.in junior high or high school people would disrespect me or get in my face at a party,l would always let them get away with it, not now tho,you walk up to me at a bar or party or hangout and get in my face l will give you one warning you dont stop you will hit the floor and go to sleep,thats something l need to work on aswell.but in my opinion people who start shiiiiit to act cool in front of the chicks or there friends diserve to go down hard.