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I don't disagree with the point he's making, merely how he's making it.

How he is making it is exactly why she will straighten up. I bet he tried other methods of parenting. Kids are ____ty, weak punishments like being grounded or taking stuff away are ineffective for the most part. Putting 7 rounds into a laptop should get his point across.
 
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Shooting the laptop was a bit much. I'd simply have confiscated it until the daughter made it into college. Pretty much everything else he did was solid (including posting his video on her wall for friends to see -- that was actually really good).





How he is making it is exactly why she will straighten up. I bet he tried other methods of parenting. Kids are ____ty, weak punishments like being grounded or taking stuff away are ineffective for the most part. Putting 7 rounds into a laptop should get his point across.

Good point as well. I guess you can't really judge the whole gun thing unless you know the full backstory. From the sound of it, the kid does seem pretty damn bratty.
 
How he is making it is exactly why she will straighten up. I bet he tried other methods of parenting. Kids are ____ty, weak punishments like being grounded or taking stuff away are ineffective for the most part. Putting 7 rounds into a laptop should get his point across.
Completely agree
 
one thing everyone is forgetting is that she did something bad and was grounded already for a month or something, she did something bad and was grounded
her computer was taken off, and then when she gets it back first thing she does is post crap about her parents,

plus before he gave it to her he spend money and upgraded everything, he took time to upgrade her computer, and she posts stuff about him and her mom,

I think the shooting was just like ( I AM SO F_ING MAD im just going to shoot this thing) type of attitude, I don't have kids but there have been times I do something for someone and they not only don't thank me but are total aholes,
 
one thing everyone is forgetting is that she did something bad and was grounded already for a month or something, she did something bad and was grounded
her computer was taken off, and then when she gets it back first thing she does is post crap about her parents,

plus before he gave it to her he spend money and upgraded everything, he took time to upgrade her computer, and she posts stuff about him and her mom,

I think the shooting was just like ( I AM SO F_ING MAD im just going to shoot this thing) type of attitude, I don't have kids but there have been times I do something for someone and they not only don't thank me but are total aholes,
Exactly. Too many parents baby their kids.
 
in the 8 minutes from what I understand she misbehaved and was being bad, and using facebook to insult her parents or something,
after she was grounded the dad wanted to do soemthing nice for her
give her a upgraded laptop, I think the shooting the laptop is because he was hurt as well,
 
Snotty kid or not, he seems like a real d*ick to me. By posting a video of this online, he's pushing her away. She will resent him after this, and rightfully so, IMO. He's going on about her paying for the bullets, yet he just destroyed an expensive piece of property that he purchased. He's just sending all the wrong signals. There are more appropriate ways of punishing a child, and I hope the unwanted attention this is bringing him shows him just that.
 
My problem was the man didn't even know his own weapon. The slide would of stayed open once the pistol was empty, he didn't even know how many rounds it held. Could of shot himself if he had tried to holster the weapon while there was still a round in the camber. If your going to own a gun at least be sure to know your weapon inside and out for your own safety and the safety of others. A gun isn't a toy and that's what he was doing in the end, playing with it as if it was.

Who cares? Its not like he was doing anything dangerous. He wasn't completly ignorant to the fact that he had more amo. The man was working the camera, reciting his speech, and holding a gun at the same time; and for a brief second forgot he had a round left.
 
Who cares? Its not like he was doing anything dangerous. He wasn't completly ignorant to the fact that he had more amo. The man was working the camera, reciting his speech, and holding a gun at the same time; and for a brief second forgot he had a round left.

Maybe you should watch it again, he had more then one round left. And using a weapon isn't to be taking lightly. See what can happen when you don't concentrate while operating a weapon.

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Trust me, don't ever take gun ownership lightly. That last guy's been shooting for 14 years. All these accidents only took a "brief second".
 
Oh geez. Its not that were taking his gun ownership lightly, but were agreeing with his sentiments and actions. The gun shots were just a creative way for him to release his frustrations. I have no kids, but even I can see why he is so angry. Not sayin more parents need to pull out their guns and break stuff but more do need to stop babying their kids.
 
Oh geez. Its not that were taking his gun ownership lightly, but were agreeing with his sentiments and actions. The gun shots were just a creative way for him to release his frustrations. I have no kids, but even I can see why he is so angry. Not sayin more parents need to pull out their guns and break stuff but more do need to stop babying their kids.

Taking his actions and agreeing with his sentiments IS taking gun ownership lightly. I was raised better than that I'm sure he was as well. :lecture
 
Maybe you should watch it again, he had more then one round left. And using a weapon isn't to be taking lightly. See what can happen when you don't concentrate while operating a weapon.

https://youtu.be/k-rGnMKszxg
https://youtu.be/AmRN00KbCr8
https://youtu.be/UQalr2EnG1M

Trust me, don't ever take gun ownership lightly. That last guy's been shooting for 14 years. All these accidents only took a "brief second".
The first guy and the third guy made the mistake of putting their fingers inside the trigger guard when drawing their weapons, and accidentally put pressure on the triggers as they lifted them out of the holsters. You can do that with a single action revolver with the hammer already down, but if you try it with a double action weapon, one with the hammer cocked, or an automatic with a round in the chamber, you are asking for trouble. Neither one of those guys seems very intelligent, based upon their speech.
The DEA agent forgot one of the most basic rules of handling a firearm, which is to always handle it as if it were loaded and ready to fire. I suppose we can be thankful he only shot himself in the foot, and no one else there. You could see and hear the unrest in the audience when he continued his speech after he shot himself. If he actually got his hands on that carbine, I'm sure at least half of the audience would have made for the door.

The dad of this girl was stupid in how he handled this. If he wanted the computer to be gone, he should have just sold the computer, and gotten some money for it, instead of throwing money away by destroying it. It would have gotten his point across just as well, the computer would be gone, and he would have saved himself some ammo, too, and not had to clean his gun after. *******.
Incidentally, the child has no self control, and it seems the parent doesn't, either. It seems the apple doesn't fall that far from the tree, after all.
Just noticed he was a smoker lecturing his daughter about common sense when people have known cigarettes cause cancer since 1964. Way to go on that good example of common sense he has set for her all these years.

Also, he doesn't have the right to destroy her property to make his point. She could sue him for the cost of her computer. Now that he made a video of it and admitted he was destroying her computer, she has the ammo.

If this guy will use his .45 to destroy his daughter's computer because of things she said with it, what else is he capable of? A man who lacks self control and owns a .45. Hmm...


If he had been there to raise her when she was growing up and given her proper guidance she would never have turned out like this. He has himself to blame for how she turned out. Interesting that she has a mother and a stepmother, too. Apparently his judgment in women and his people skills have been lacking. So he tells his daughter what to do by giving orders and expecting her to follow them. Something tells me he hasn't been around enough when she was growing up to create an emotional bond compelling enough to make her WANT to do as he asks. His daughter's behavior is proof of his failure as a father. She is her father's daughter.
 
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