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My condolences for your loss. I know how it feels like to lose someone. One of my best friends passed away in June and it was hard to deal with. I just hope the pain lessens in due time.
 
The services are hard. Fortunately I had my brothers there with me, and we shared good memories during the services. In the days and weeks following, I used that experience and took a few index cards and wrote some anecdotes and some of his favorite sayings on them so whenever I would feel bad I would read them and remember how much he had given me, so you might try that. Every case is different, in fact even different when my mom died a few months later, but it helped me to think of celebrating the life instead of dwelling on the loss.
I hope I'm not being too intrusive and I hope the advice helps out in a hard time.
 
The good thing is you still have a lot of people around you that love and will support you.

Remember that you are 50% your father and 50% your mother. So a big part of him still lives on. Everytime you look in the mirror he's with you. I mean it on so many levels. Your memories of him will also keep him alive, so hold to those tightly as I imagine you have and will.

If you ever need another friend, you can always get in contact with me. I'll pm you my email which is also my MSN contact. Anytime you want to talk, I'll do my best to get back to you. I say this because school has been stretching me thin as is.

*hugs* Wished I could give you a real one bud.
 
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