Plot Analysis
Possible SPOILERS for Episode VIII & IX
My theories my be Bantha Poodoo.....but here they are in order......
Few years post Jedi
Luke decides to restart the Jedi Acadamy.
Begins with training His nephew and a few others.
Nephew turns bitter and angry during training because Daddy and Mommy are fighting
Daddy leaves, mommy is obsessed with her work.....
Luke struggles with teaching Ben control of his tangled emotions.
Luke meets someone and begins a ? Marriage? Love Affair??
Ben is now betrayed by his Uncle who now spends more time with his lady.( Mara Jade like?)
Lady get pregnant.
Kylo is ignored even more and begins hanging out with some cronies for attention (Knight of Ren) who like him because he is strong with the force.
Kylo begins torturing small animals (LOL)
Kylo the Teen Years
Kylo meets Snoke (who tells he a tale of his powerful grandfather and how he could have made everything right, if not for his weakness, the light side)
Kylo goes and gets Vaders Helm and his ASHES!!!!
Kylo rest said Helm in the ASHES of Vader (see side notes)
Kylo decides to become like Vader and use his power to bring peace to the galaxy...like Alexander the Great.
He begins by destroying the Jedi , as his grandfather did. Resentful of the 2 absent men in his world.
Post second Jedi destruction
Luke knows the threat to his daughter, Rey...hides her on Jakku with a trusted friend ( Lor San Tekka) to watch over (like his mentor Ben did with him)
He gives Lor San Tekka part of a map to find him...if needed.
Luke puts R2D2 to sleep...with part of a map on where to find him when the time comes.
He hopes his daughter will not feel the pull as he did as young man, but knows that Kylo could become another Darth Vader...and that he will need her help to defeat him...as Obi Wan did with Luke. (He's too old for this sort of thing)
He hides himself from the world...feeling he is making things worse not better..until someone else..more powerful and wise can help him.
Rey is too young to remember much (4 years old?) (see post notes)
Rey is left alone on Jakku...but taught that she is waiting for her family to return....and she HAS to be there for this event.
Fast forward to TFA
NOTES
This is all wild speculation about random things...
Han knows nothing of Rey...it all happened after his mid life crisis...He had left already. 10 years between Kylo's birth and Rey's
Rey KNOWS Han Solo...she says it....she remember being told about him as a child, and she knows his not as General Solo like Finn, her recollection is more personal.
Rey is pulled by the Force to her destiny, even before Luke can return for her...
She gets a full blast of who she is when she touched the light saber. She begins to remember.
She recalls who she is after calming herself during her battle with Kylo, and the memories return, including those of her Aunt (who she greets with sadness, now remembering who she is, and that her Aunts love has been killed by his son (her cousin).
Chewie gives her a very peculiar look when she joins him on the Falcon. Hes looking at her as Daughter of Skywalker.........looking for resemblance.
Rey knows Luke is her Father now. Luke know Rey is is Daughter.....He is tearing up because Han is dead, His daughter is now involved, and expects him to go through everything again...everything he FAILED at.
Another weird theory.
The ASHES Kylo keeps his helmet in, may be imbued with the Dark side. Kylo seems most powerful with the dark side Dark when he has the Helm on....(Anonymity also can make people mean...see internet trolls). Perhaps this makes him more evil...wearing a helm that rests in Vader ashes....
When Vader was burned his mortal body turned to ashe and his force spirit returned to the heros which Luke saw at the end of Jedi. Perhaps its a comment on our mortal bodies corrupting the Light Side due to our human urges and desires....which vanish when we are freed from our bodies?
Snoke...may be the Emporers force spirit in another body..alla Voldemort. He is very wounded...and old whomever he is.
I congratulate all who read my mind dump here...I would love to here what you think....