Yeah, that sounds about right. I really don't think we should only allow positive and/or uncritical comments. We can't be allergic to disagreements. I've gotten down in it with some members here (including you Niltusk!
) and I realize it's pretty easy to get insulted online, especially when you really identify with an idea. I try to stay specific to the subject matter so that people don't immediately think I'm trash talking just for the hell of it. Nothing's perfect but at a certain point if it gets too intense, it's better for me to step away for a minute than to ride that wave. I've gotten alot of introspection from reading comments from just about every one of the regulars here. I'd hate to see bans come down when all it takes is a little more finesse and consideration.
I think Nam has alot of good insight when you get past the flames. All that's needed is a little space for people to maintain a modicum of respect. All you can really do is keep posting your ideas and hope other people share them. No sense in trying to purge the thread of unwanted views. Besides, I'm in my thirties and I don't derive a great amount of pride in getting into snark matches with young guys half my age. There's no cure for generation gap!