Okay, I'll rephrase that for you.
In this hypothetical situation you have an alien child you've adopted with extraordinary powers and abilities.
That child is in a situation wherein he can save a bus full of his peers from dying on impact or subsequently drowning to death, but in so doing risks revealing his nature and inviting a great deal of government and public scrutiny that will present him with significant, life-altering emotional and psychological challenges.
It's a given that he's not going to get hurt saving them.
You would prefer that he allow his peers to perish? In this scenario we'll assume you're not "fine" with it but feel really bad about it afterwards, but your kid has avoided the government and public scrutiny.
Is that precise enough for you? You would prefer the deaths of his peers to guard his secret?