I actually really liked lifting when I did it before and it was one of those things that felt really good to get back into, upon going to the gym again. It's kind of funny because, maybe it's growing up the fat kid, but I always dreamed of being the dude with the 6 pack; yet, in my mind, it was always somebody else looking back at me in the mirror; like I was stepping into somebody else's shoes, but, for the first time in my life, I look on the mirror and I feel like that could be me; I can see that being me. I realize getting to that level with such a low percentage of body fat takes a lot of time, effort, and dedication, but I just feel like, for once in my life, I would like to tap into whatever potential there is and just, like, use every ounce of it.
Calorie counting is one of those things that I feel like you get good at over time. I have My Fitness Pal and stuff like that on my phone, and there are some weeks where I'll be logging every meal religiously and others where I can eyeball it and tell pretty accurately if I've had enough. I'm 6', so, my goal is to get down to 190 and then build myself back up to about 200.
6 packs are overrated. Sure they are nice to have, but focus on one step at a time. Once you get down to a good bodyfat percentage, they're easy to have poke through. You can hammer the **** out of them multiple times a week to have a washboard stomach. At least in my experience that is. I'm more focused on losing fat right now than working on my abs. I only train them once a week. I used to do it three with a total of say 400 crunches (different variations throughout)
I'd give an arm for the gains you'll get when you start seriously weightlifting. After awhile, it becomes an agonizing slow process. Doing it right, you could gain 10lbs of muscle in a year when you're starting out.
I like how people say "oh it's hard not eating." Try eating ALL THE TIME. Although when your metabolism kicks in, it's easy to do. I'm starving every hour and a half nowadays.