Why the F do girls have this much effect on people???

[ChrisCJ99]

So I just figured "what the F" and wanted to vent a little....... So I moved out here to San Francisco from Tampa, FL in January of this year to pursue my second bachelors degree in web design and new media. I've been with my girlfriend of 3.5 years (off and on) and she apparently proclaimed that I was her best friend and her first love... I was her very FIRST boyfriend, first everything. I moved out here to pursue a better career and wanted to stay with her, eventually make her a wife. She's a great person, very kind and religious. But apparently I've been "too grouchy" because I complain too much about the change in culture and lifesyle out here. So she apparently doesn't want to deal with the "burden and responsibility" of having to listen to my frustrations all the time. There isn't any other guy involved, because I talk to her family... But she apparently just "wants her alone time". She says she feels pressured because she feels responsible for my happiness and she can't exactly offer than since were thousands of miles away... So she just decided to call it quits and wants to "see how life is outside of me"......

I'm super ticked, and just wanted to reach out to some fellow freaks for some type of esteem booster. yeah, F the hoes.....

 

[EVILFACE]

She's cheating on you.

 

[iron.jedi83]

i heard there was a lot of really beautiful ladies up there in san francisco so you should be able to pick out any of them. once she sees that you moved on who knows she might want you back and you could be like "nope you had your chance and blew it" or you could take her back

 

[Ven]

im gonna have to agree with EF.

 

[Kibishii]

Well, you could be in the bait & switch situation (acts one way, get a ring on the finger and quickly acts another). It will be no consolation to you, but you could at least consider that at least you got out before you got married. If she is saying "life outside of you," then she has other plans and you guys were probably doomed anyway.

I had a longtime girlfriend back close to 12 years ago who said the whole, "take some time apart and see what things are like." Next thing I know, all our friends are telling me that she is partying like mad on the club scene and screwing one of her cousin's friends. I REALLY hate to say it, but it sounds like she is cheating on you or has someone lined up...

I was so messed up from that that I actually moved to California to live with my father and go to college out here and my life is way, way better now and my wife is a hell of alot hotter than girlfriend was. Funny thing is, the exgirlfriend actually contacted me via Facebook last year.

Sorry to hear it, and it really sucks that you moved so far away and and I hope things work out, but you might be better in the long run.

 

[Devil_666]

She's cheating on you AND you were not her "first" bro.

So she just decided to call it quits and wants to "see how life is outside of me"......

Shouldn't it be "see how life is with you not inside of me"!? Cuz you know.. us guys.. with our stuff.. and then the girls.. you know.. meh.

Seriously: F' her. You're better off without her. Better to find all this ish out now then when you're married or married with kids.

 

[Darth Caedus]

You need to tell her this

 

[mkcc30]

Never known a woman that wants her "alone time", not in that sense. After ten years of marriage my Wife still gets peeved if I am not "there for her" whenever she wishes!

 

[ChrisCJ99]

She's cheating on you.

Well it wouldn't technically be "Cheating" as of right now. But I was informed my MULTIPLE resources that nothing has been going on.... I have many eyes on her right now

Well, you could be in the bait & switch situation (acts one way, get a ring on the finger and quickly acts another). It will be no consolation to you, but you could at least consider that at least you got out before you got married. If she is saying "life outside of you," then she has other plans and you guys were probably doomed anyway.

I had a longtime girlfriend back when I was 21 (12 years ago) who said the whole, "take some time apart and see what things are like." Next thing I know, all our friends are telling me that she is partying like mad on the club scene and 'getting around' if you know what I mean. I REALLY hate to say it, but it sounds like she is cheating on you or has someone lined up...

Sorry to hear it, and it really sucks that you moved so far away and and I hope things work out, but you might be better in the long run.

Thanks man. I know, but you're right. She isn't a partier AT ALL. She's a really innocent sweet girl. Just young, immature and SHELTERED! Tough, but I don't come from such a weak and fragile household. Us puerto ricans get feisty as hell, and we don't mesh well with people that are weak

 

[Bodie The Cursed]

I'd love some alone time..

Move on..

 

[ChrisCJ99]

I'd love some alone time..

Move on..

Bodie!!!!!! Jumpin in on my thread!!!! I'm honored!!!

Alone time??? You got the good old ball and chain on your ankle??

 

[ChrisCJ99]

You need to tell her this

 

[mkcc30]

Better to find all this ish out now then when you're married or married with kids.

That gets a BIG freakin'

 

[Valfar]

Well it wouldn't technically be "Cheating" as of right now. But I was informed my MULTIPLE resources that nothing has been going on.... I have many eyes on her right now



Thanks man. I know, but you're right. She isn't a partier AT ALL. She's a really innocent sweet girl. Just young, immature and SHELTERED! Tough, but I don't come from such a weak and fragile household. Us puerto ricans get feisty as hell, and we don't mesh well with people that are weak

Thats que for GTFO of that relationship...meet someone that has some experience and knows what they want in a relationship, someone honest and speaks their mind.

 

[Kibishii]

She isn't a partier AT ALL. She's a really innocent sweet girl. Just young, immature and SHELTERED!

That is what I thought as well

 

[OSCORP]

Maybe you DO complain and whine too much. You did make a thread on a message board about it.

 

[plasmid303]

So I just figured "what the F" and wanted to vent a little....... So I moved out here to San Francisco from Tampa, FL in January of this year to pursue my second bachelors degree in web design and new media. I've been with my girlfriend of 3.5 years (off and on) and she apparently proclaimed that I was her best friend and her first love... I was her very FIRST boyfriend, first everything. I moved out here to pursue a better career and wanted to stay with her, eventually make her a wife. She's a great person, very kind and religious. But apparently I've been "too grouchy" because I complain too much about the change in culture and lifesyle out here. So she apparently doesn't want to deal with the "burden and responsibility" of having to listen to my frustrations all the time. There isn't any other guy involved, because I talk to her family... But she apparently just "wants her alone time". She says she feels pressured because she feels responsible for my happiness and she can't exactly offer than since were thousands of miles away... So she just decided to call it quits and wants to "see how life is outside of me"......

"A wife"? You mean like, one of many?

 

[ChrisCJ99]

Well, you could be in the bait & switch situation (acts one way, get a ring on the finger and quickly acts another). It will be no consolation to you, but you could at least consider that at least you got out before you got married. If she is saying "life outside of you," then she has other plans and you guys were probably doomed anyway.

I had a longtime girlfriend back close to 12 years ago who said the whole, "take some time apart and see what things are like." Next thing I know, all our friends are telling me that she is partying like mad on the club scene and screwing one of her cousin's friends. I REALLY hate to say it, but it sounds like she is cheating on you or has someone lined up...

I was so messed up from that that I actually moved to California to live with my father and go to college out here and my life is way, way better now and my wife is a hell of alot hotter than girlfriend was. Funny thing is, the exgirlfriend actually contacted me via Facebook last year.

Sorry to hear it, and it really sucks that you moved so far away and and I hope things work out, but you might be better in the long run.

Dang man.... That sucks! But she isn't a party girl AT ALL. Sheltered and religious girl. But I hear you. Everyone keeps telling me that this happened for a reason and that better things will come along....

 

[ChrisCJ99]

Maybe you DO complain and whine too much. You did make a thread on a message board about it.

Hush you.... This is supposed to be like a family here. You're just the insensitive prick cousin that drinks too much at the family gatherings and plays basketball with all the 10 year olds and feels good about yourself when you block all of their shots......

Keep the freak community real yo

 

[mkcc30]

Dang man.... That sucks! But she isn't a party girl AT ALL. Sheltered and religious girl. But I hear you. Everyone keeps telling me that this happened for a reason and that better things will come along....

There's your answer....... Given a chance they will REALLY let loose and depending upon what side of the equation your on it can be fun or very damaging.