Why the F do girls have this much effect on people???

[ChrisCJ99]

Do you think you got the flu from the plane ride? Hope you're feeling better!

I have no idea... But my father seems to believe that

 

[quadcent]

Well, for those who are still interested I thought I'd post a quick little update....

I arrived last Thursday night into Tampa and I was actually picked up at the airport by the lady. How was I feeling? Happy yet still shut off...... It's like we picked up where we left off. Everything seemed fine. But as the "fluff" wore off I started sitting back and taking a look at everything.... Something still seemed off, as in NOT RIGHT.

Either way, I came down with the Swine flu The lady has been taking care of me since.

But, I still have another week of pondering to do.... She says she wants to work things out, and move to Cali with me in a couple months maybe. But I'm not all for it..... I had a taste of being alone and it isn't so scary anymore. So I'm not really too enthusiastic about jumping back into this relationship again
Sam's advice, and everyone else's, has really given me some good insight. So thanks again

this coming from one that is happily married, i would leave well enough alone and continue on your path to recovering from this breakup.
after sometime if you both are still single then maybe try again.
imo if you head back into a relationship with her at this time you won't be in the right mind set, nor will she.

 

[Morbach]

Well, for those who are still interested I thought I'd post a quick little update....

I arrived last Thursday night into Tampa and I was actually picked up at the airport by the lady. How was I feeling? Happy yet still shut off...... It's like we picked up where we left off. Everything seemed fine. But as the "fluff" wore off I started sitting back and taking a look at everything.... Something still seemed off, as in NOT RIGHT.

Either way, I came down with the Swine flu The lady has been taking care of me since.

But, I still have another week of pondering to do.... She says she wants to work things out, and move to Cali with me in a couple months maybe. But I'm not all for it..... I had a taste of being alone and it isn't so scary anymore. So I'm not really too enthusiastic about jumping back into this relationship again

Sam's advice, and everyone else's, has really given me some good insight. So thanks again

As a guy I will tell you straight up (and I'm sure girls feel the same way when it happens to them) that when your heart gets kicked around a bit and you're so sick of drama and stress the best thing is to be single and fly solo. Spread your wings, dude. After the way you've been dragged along there's no wonder you want your freedom. Just do what you feel is right.

 

[wHySoSeRiOuS203]

I simply cannot believe you're still thinking about this. As your thread title says -- you're a great example of why we girls DO have this much effect on people because you "people" let us. And they say that females are illogical.

Sorry to be so blunt, but you're either a masochist or just like to post your angst to the world for attention.

wow...thats kind of...rough? whose pantyhose are in a bunch? jk jk

 

[Anton Phibes]

Well, it's like I always say. All women are crazy, you just have to find the least craziest one and marry her.

"Women---can't live with them, can't bury them alive."---Edgar A. Poe.

 

[knucklefunger]

Dude listen to these folks, she's having it off with someone else. The only thing worse than the betrayal like that is when it involves a friend (?) Just went through something like this,

ABANDON SHIP MAN

This relationship is like cancer. If you don't get rid of it & live a life worth living it's gonna slowly kill you. Very very painfully. Can your heart bear that kind of hurt?

 

[Darth Caedus]

I simply cannot believe you're still thinking about this. As your thread title says -- you're a great example of why we girls DO have this much effect on people because you "people" let us. And they say that females are illogical.

Sorry to be so blunt, but you're either a masochist or just like to post your angst to the world for attention.

Give her one of these

 

[Deckard]

"A word to the "not-so-wise" about your little girlfriend. Do what you need to with her, then broom her fast."

- Stormin Norman's words to live by.

 

[Black@ssB0lt]

 

[Skiman]

"A word to the "not-so-wise" about your little girlfriend. Do what you need to with her, then broom her fast."

- Stormin Norman's words to live by.

 

[El Roranous]

This thread is still alive. Too lazy to read it but I know what it means.