Why the F do girls have this much effect on people???

[BadMoon]

She found someone else. You have to watch out for the church going types IMO. After growing up under strict households some tend to get a little crazy. Or a lot of crazy. Look at that one girl that was on the real world back in the day that was a mormon. She went all tons of crazy and got kicked out of her school.

Women are the devil.

 

[ChrisCJ99]

When you find the right girl you'll know it and I also think you know this one isn't. Its alll about experience at the end of the day. Best of luck on the next dame.

I find truth in that. I haven't experienced that "certainty" quite yet with anyone. But the thing is, my good buddy met some girl and preached "She's the one. When you know you just know....." Well, one year after their wedding they were signing divorce papers... See, so I'm just skeptical

I didn't read everyone's statement, but if she's pulling this crap just with you just being across the country for a bit, how do you think she's going to be when your married or have a house or kids and ^^^^ REALLY starts to hit the fan?? Abandon ship bro - have fun in cali - lots of fish out there just find one that doesn't smell like it

I agree. Things WOULD be much more difficult if there were other attachments....

 

[ChrisCJ99]

But to comment and fill people in on this particular female/hellraiser:
-she's always been the shy type. Not very opinionated. Easily persuaded. If she said the sky was blue and someone came in and said "no, it's red!" She'd just say "oh, ok".....
-She doesn't argue for crap.....
-She's been raised as an only child by her mother (which her mother is soft and sweet too, but has been through three marriages herself!) So the mother pampered and spoiled this girl to death!!!! I always believe that to be crippling to ones independence...

But to give you an example of HOW pampered she is, the ex had to move back home to save some money for hospital bills. The girl is 23, and the mom wakes her up everyday to make her breakfast, clean the house. She's even bought her a brand new car and helps pay for all her schooling. Now I'm not saying my parents haven't ever paid for any of my things, but she ALWAYS gets things given to her..... Hope this give you guys a better idea

Everyone loves a nice sweet girl, but have anyone dated a girl that was just TOO nice? It seems as the older people get they appreciate that but to en extent, no?

 

[BadMoon]

But to comment and fill people in on this particular female/hellraiser, she's always been the shy type. Not very opinionated. Easily persuaded. If she said the sky was blue and someone came in and said "no, it's red!" She'd just say "oh, ok"..... She doesn't argue for crap..... She's been raised as an only child by her mother (which her mother is soft and sweet too, but has been through three marriages herself!) So the mother pampered and spoiled this girl to death!!!! I always believe that to be crippling to ones independence... But to give you an example of HOW pampered she is, the ex had to move back home to save some money for hospital bills. The girl is 23, and the mom wakes her up everyday to make her breakfast, clean the house. She's even bought her a brand new car and helps pay for all her schooling. Now I'm not saying my parents haven't ever paid for any of my things, but she ALWAYS gets things given to her..... Hope this give you guys a better idea

Sure does. Please refer to my first post above. All the pampering will make what I said 10 times worse. Before you know it you will have a real ### dumpster on your hands.

 

[creature4000]

She's cheating on you.

... yep.

Drop her like a rock and never talk to her again!!!

 

[praxitas]

Sounds like the type chick I used to enjoy corrupting in my younger days

 

[ProgMatinee]

yeah sounds like she was easily corrupted by some douche like praxitas.

 

[Skiman]

Sounds like the type chick I used to enjoy corrupting in my younger days

I did date a grl that was too nice and innocent and I think it's just not my cup of tea. It's almost whenever a grl tells that teh guy is just too nice or is just a nice guy.

 

[praxitas]

yeah sounds like she was easily corrupted by some douche like praxitas.

Maybe it was some unknown spawn from me

 

[bagelsncheesey]

Sounds like she...

1. found someone else
2. needs to grow a bit
3. is sheltered by her mother

Definitely walk away. You'll thank all of us in about a year.

 

[BadMoon]

Sounds like she...

1. found someone else
2. needs to grow a bit
3. is sheltered by her mother

Definitely walk away. You'll thank all of us in about a year.

Yeah what he said.

 

[FLOSI]

She's cheating on you.

And if she's not yet she's got something lined up and is just itching for the strange ^^^^.

It's not so bad in the Bay Area, man..... You now live in one of the most amazing cities in the nation. Get out a little.

 

[ProgMatinee]

i guess being in SF you can easily switch hit now.

 

[BadMoon]

i guess being in SF you can easily switch hit now.

 

[DinoLast]

Man, all you gotta do is find a girl that looks just like her, nail her, and then dump her, man.


You get a point if you know what movie that bad advice is from


My advice is that it was never meant to be, so it might not seem like it now, but she did you a favour in the long run.

 

[Darth Waller]

Man, all you gotta do is find a girl that looks just like her, nail her, and then dump her, man.

Just make sure and put it on YouTube.

 

[ChrisCJ99]

Sounds like she...

1. found someone else
2. needs to grow a bit
3. is sheltered by her mother

Definitely walk away. You'll thank all of us in about a year.

I know..... I keep telling myself this, but for some reason my head just doesn't want to hear/believe the truth..... I'm looking for some type of instant sense of relief. I've been getting that INSTANT relief since I've had this girl wrapped around my finger for years! So not getting any relief is a shock to the system.....

i guess being in SF you can easily switch hit now.

No thanks, just the females for me

 

[ChrisCJ99]

The funny thing is, her grandmother has been telling me that God will give me a sign (not to be a bible slapper, but they're kinda religious. Which is totally fine IMO) So funny thing, I went to apply for my student loans for next semester and my lender (Chase bank) dropped my school. And I couldn't find anyone to approve me.... So it was like a slap in the face. The girl said that she would like me to come home, but only for myself. And this was almost like a sign.....

But the thing is, I COULD stay out here if I really wanted to fight and find other financial resources. But the opportunity is there to come home..... But apparently she's still proclaiming that it won't change anything if I come home. That she'll still want to be apart.....

 

[DarkArtist81]

Damn dude, is that the chick that you came over here with? She seemed really sweet, but as you said... she had that "almost too nice" girl quality. She did seem like a great girl, and she's cute.... I hope things work out.

I don't know what the situation is behind it all, but the most importantly do what you think is right. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. If you DO love her and want things to work, just keep trying to make it work. If she's inflexible and rock solid about it, there is nothing you can do but move on. She might just be going through that mid-20's crazy time when she's just wanting NEW and shiny things.... who knows?

Best of luck bro.

 

[BadMoon]

But apparently she's still proclaiming that it won't change anything if I come home. That she'll still want to be apart.....

That should tell you all you need to know.