Why the F do girls have this much effect on people???

[Kibishii]

Dang man.... That sucks! But she isn't a party girl AT ALL. Sheltered and religious girl. But I hear you. Everyone keeps telling me that this happened for a reason and that better things will come along....

How old are you two, early 20's? Well, people can change really fricking fast, so get it out of your head that she "isn't a party girl and that she is sheltered and religious." I'm not saying that she isn't, but I would get that out of your head quicklike before you find out stuff and it shocks you; trust me. If she is religious, are you two the same religion? It may be that she doesn't want to be unequally yolked with someone who isn't as religious as her.

I am going to say it again for emphasis: get it out of your head that she "isn't a party girl and that she is sheltered and religious" so that when you hear some crazy $%*! she is doing, you aren't stunned.

As far as my break up, that's just it man, it sucked for about six months or so and then my life got much better.

 

[Solidus]

Screw that biotch. I say, dump her before she dumps you - you'll keep most of your dignity that way.

 

[ChrisCJ99]

How old are you two, early 20's?

As far as my break up, that's just it man, it sucked for about six months or so and then my life got much better.

Well, I'm 28. But at least it's comforting to hear that life got much better. I've had to get over the devastation of a long term break up before. And it totally sucks, but I know what you mean that things get better eventually.... It's just a matter of getting over that initial hump of TOTAL devastation. It's a huge adjustment. But thanks for the words man. It really helps. Freaks for life!!!!

 

[Mesa]

I've had a couple of "good" girlfriends and a lot more "BAD" girlfriends. And the bad ones were just plain evil, mean, and hurtful; of course finding this out later. It's the bad ones that make some women wonder why guys are such A-holes and afraid of commitment; "fool me once" sort of thing. Each time I've been burned, I've been more careful in dating the next time. Sort of sucks, but I'm sick of the bull^^^^ myself.

Good luck in your future endeavors.

 

[ChrisCJ99]

Thanks for the kind words everyone..... It totally sucks being in these shoes. All stages of life I guess. I remember when I got out of my first long term relationship and it was HELL to get over. But once I did it was great and everything was fine eventually.

It just sucks being in the position again!!!!!

F the hoes

You guys kick ass

 

[Chargersfan57]

I agree with what everyone else here has said. A lot of times more is going on "behind the scenes" then you know, or want to know.

I had a past girlfriend that was always complaining about being sick. She always called the night off early because "something was wrong and she wasn't feeling well". She had to go through surgery for her throat and she made it out to be this huge deal. At one point she told me she didn't expect to make it through! She was also religious but that doesn't really necessarily mean anything.

I remember visiting her and her mom after she "made it through" the surgery, we were all in the living room watching tv and she had to go upstairs to take her meds...

Now I knew she had been lying to me about a lot of things so I took that time to talk with her mother about the surgery. Of course, her mother confirmed that she just had a minor surgery and she was fine!

So, I broke it off. If something's going on it's good to end things before they get worse. Always expect the unexpected when dating.

Ending relationships do suck, but eventually we get back on our feet.

 

[Beerbelly Bob]

I use to live in the Bay Area and there is hardly any hot chicks out there not to mention when you go to a club there is like 10 guys to 1 girl. It's Silicon Valley after all and lots of guys move over there to start a new career which is why there is more guys up there in the Bay Area. Total wiener fest.

Here in San Diego you will have all the beautiful ladies you'll ever need. Beautiful beaches and every women of any race you want. We got big butts, small butts, flats butts, bazooka tits and mosquito tits....we got it all boy. Sure nothing beats Brazilian women of course but we definitely are the best in America. So come on down and hang out with Big Beerbelly Bob and his friends for a few days and I'll show you around and you'll soon forget your depression and you wont ever want to leave.

 

[Khev]

Sorry to be the one to break it to you Chris but I saw your girl at Ybor last night with another guy so I snapped a pic. They seemed pretty into each other.

 

[Eli26]

Sorry to be the one to break it to you Chris but I saw your girl at Ybor last night with another guy so I snapped a pic. They seemed pretty into each other.

Why God, why?! I ^^^^ing hate you Khev for posting that! You ^^^^^^^!

 

[-jay-]

Why God, why?! I ^^^^ing hate you Khev for posting that! You ^^^^^^^!

Don't lie Eli you were on that as soon as he let her go!

 

[CelticPredator]

He's all up in her badonkadonk.

 

[tnaig001]

my take on this is better to go through crap now and get out rather than marry her and deal with a messy divorce some time down the road.

 

[Skiman]

How old are you two, early 20's? Well, people can change really fricking fast, so get it out of your head that she "isn't a party girl and that she is sheltered and religious." I'm not saying that she isn't, but I would get that out of your head quicklike before you find out stuff and it shocks you; trust me. If she is religious, are you two the same religion? It may be that she doesn't want to be unequally yolked with someone who isn't as religious as her.

I am going to say it again for emphasis: get it out of your head that she "isn't a party girl and that she is sheltered and religious" so that when you hear some crazy $%*! she is doing, you aren't stunned.

As far as my break up, that's just it man, it sucked for about six months or so and then my life got much better.

I agree with this statement and if it's not that it's gotta be something else than just wanting time alone. Like Kib says ppl in that age really do change quickly, heck I remember the gf I had whenever I was in my mid twenties and there's no way in hell I would go back to something like that meaning that my views have changed in what I wanted in a woman. You really do live and learn my friend. Don't take this as bad thought but how much time did you guys really spend together with you across the country. She was bound to either getting bored or antsy by not having you around to comfort her, distance relationships are rough and hardly workout towards the end.

I would take Beerbelly Bob's advice and just find urself concentrate on school because that is going to the foundation of ur life and live it up with all the San Diego/Cali chicks. It would be GO TIME for me right now if I were you! It's time to :chew:chew sick

 

[occulum]

She's a really innocent sweet girl. Just young, immature and SHELTERED!

thats probably the issue. She's moved out and is now seeing, and interested in experiencing the new SanFran life. And your complaints about what interests her obviously doesnt align with her own thoughts.


And you know how the saying goes.... anytime a woman says she needs time to "Find herself" that means "Find herself a new man" ...
.. turn her loose....

 

[-Super Hans-]

keep your relationships like a childs trousers, short and dirty

 

[jnmx2000]

I don't care what people say, there is always sweeter fruit to be picked, so get to pickin!

 

[Voorhees27]

When you find the right girl you'll know it and I also think you know this one isn't. Its alll about experience at the end of the day. Best of luck on the next dame.

 

[praxitas]

I didn't read everyone's statement, but if she's pulling this crap just with you just being across the country for a bit, how do you think she's going to be when your married or have a house or kids and ^^^^ REALLY starts to hit the fan?? Abandon ship bro - have fun in cali - lots of fish out there just find one that doesn't smell like it

 

[siquisiri]

Sorry bro, but it seems like she found someone else.....Though break.

 

[ProgMatinee]

"innocent and sweet" girls need a good banging too and since you aint there to do it she broke up with you. probably wasn't cheating on you yet, but she probably wants to get laid and not whined to over the telephone.

It sucks. When I was young and naive and a virgin I was dating this (what I thought) prudish and religious chick, though she was very hot. We were routinely going to 3rd, but I was too shy to ask and assumed she didn't want to actually go all the way and well, I was wrong she did and I guess she dumped me to become a **** (so I imagine) which I would have obliged if only I knew she wanted that...

in any event, take this opportunity to have some fun and don't look back.